44. Sex with Multiple Partners Does Not Make You A Slut

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In this episode of Self Love Legacy podcast, let’s dive in and start normalizing talking about sex. Join me as we talk about sex and how it is different for each person.

Episode Timeline:

[01:35]

It is time that we normalize sex, it is time that we have open communication about it so that we can help ourselves, others, and the younger generation coming up behind us.

[01:57]

Sex is not a dirty word. We need to be having these conversations so that we can take the stigma away from sex.

[02:20]

How we view sex and call each other names plays a huge factor in this stigma around sex.

[03:29]

The demeaning words no matter how much you mean them in a joking way can cause more harm than good.

[04:27]

There are also women out there who have sex with multiple partners because they damn just enjoy sex. It is not wrong if they are responsible with their own bodies. There are also women who get in bed with multiple partners because when they look in the mirror, they hate what they see. And the only way they feel seen is to have sex, or they do have a fear or experiencing loneliness.

[05:28]

There should be no judgment for people who have multiple partners, we should just hope that everybody's being safe.

[06:28]

Sex is healthy when we know that we are doing it for the right reasons.

[08:00]

Don't let anybody shame you. Don't let anybody judge you. Because you are doing what you need to do, to move through those emotions get healthy, mentally, and emotionally, and make choices that are conscious. When you and realize where is this coming from, it becomes a completely different ballgame.

[12:01]

When you are choosing to sleep with someone, my advice for you is to make sure that you are doing it for the reasons you want to do it. Not for experiences you've had in your past, not for fear, not for acceptance.

Sex is complicated and there is no reason to make it more complicated by beating yourself up for your choices. Excited to hear your thoughts on this episode.

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