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12-step recovery for those of us who love alcoholics or addicts. We share our experience, strength, and hope as we use the principles of the Al-Anon program in our lives. We talk openly and honestly about the problems and challenges as we face alcoholism and addiction in our friends and relatives. We share the tools and solutions we have found that let us live a life that is serene, happy, and free, even when the alcoholic or addict is still drinking or using.
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Do you feel overwhelmed and emotionally drained, struggling to support your child with substance abuse disorder? This podcast offers practical guidance for parents navigating the challenging journey of supporting a child battling addiction without losing themselves along the way. Each week, you’ll gain critical insights and strategies, including: Learning how to manage the emotional rollercoaster of addiction with effective coping tools. Discover techniques to support your child while mainta ...
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Wife On The Rocks I Gaslighting, Addiction, Codependency, Al Anon, Alcoholism, Recovery

Christian Alcoholism Relationship Coach, Crisis Parenting Coach

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Did you marry the man of your dreams, only to now find alcohol seeping into every part of your family? As a woman of faith, committed to your vows, do you struggle to walk out your convictions amidst the chaos and confusion that has devastated your marriage? Do you wish you had someone to confide in without judgment, consequences later or let’s be honest, hearing the worst advice EVER from well meaning people? Despite your relentless efforts, do you feel betrayed, stuck in a cycle, praying f ...
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Al Anonymous

Al Bedell

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A lifestyle podcast hosted by Al Bedell (with guests) about wellness, addiction, sobriety, mental health, drugs, and spirituality. Thought-provoking feel good/feel sad content. Pretty funny, too. HOTLINE: 920-3-CALL-ALL (9203225525) Help Desk/Advice/Inquiries: [email protected] patreon.com/alanonymous
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If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re helping your husband or enabling his addiction, this episode is for you. As Christian wives, we’re called to love and support—but when codependency creeps in, it can be hard to tell if our actions are helping or hurting. In today’s episode, I share two simple but powerful questions—your litmus test—to help you…
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What if the relapse you fear most is actually a necessary step toward your child’s lasting recovery? When your loved one finally agrees to rehab, the wave of hope can be overwhelming—but what happens when they relapse? This episode unpacks the emotional rollercoaster many parents face, offering vital clarity and support around why relapse is often …
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In this exploration of Al-Anon's Concept Four, “Participation is the key to harmony,” Spencer and Sarah look at how they participate in personal, group, and professional interactions. This concept, which consists of only five words, may initially seem simplistic, but we find depth when we relate it to our own experiences and explore its practical..…
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Are you exhausted from trying to "fix" your child—and wondering if it's taking a toll on your own wellbeing? When your child is struggling with substance use, the emotional rollercoaster of fear, hope, and helplessness can push you to the brink. This episode dives into the overlooked reality of parental burnout, and how letting go of control and fo…
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In this episode on boundaries, we return to the basics—what they are, why they matter, and how they serve as a powerful shield for your peace. Think of boundaries not as walls to keep your husband out, but as a protective dome that creates space between you and the chaos of addiction. This distance isn’t about punishment—it’s about preserving your …
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Are you tired of being told you have to wait for your child to want recovery before anything can change? Many parents of children struggling with substance abuse are trapped in helpless waiting, believing they must sit by until their child chooses recovery. In this episode, you'll discover why that belief is not only misleading but dangerous — and …
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Is cutting your child off really the best path to recovery—or could it be deepening the disconnect? Many parents are told to wait for their child to “hit rock bottom” or to apply “tough love,” but this episode challenges those outdated and often harmful approaches. If you’ve been struggling with whether to stay connected or step back, this conversa…
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Have you ever wondered what your husband is thinking!? Active Addiction comes with all kinds of twisted thinking in the mind to justify otherwise unhealthy behavior. In this powerful episode, we delve into the intricate journey from a husband's perspective as alcohol steadily takes command over life. I'm joined by my husband, who courageously opens…
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Ever wondered if that gut feeling about your child’s addiction is true intuition—or just fear speaking? When you're parenting a child in addiction recovery, making the right decision in high-stakes moments can feel overwhelming. The internal tug-of-war between fear and intuition is real—and knowing which voice to follow could be the difference betw…
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How do you handle judgment when your child is struggling with addiction—and everyone around you seems to have an opinion? If you're a parent navigating the painful and complex journey of a child's substance use, you've likely faced shame, isolation, and unsolicited advice. This episode dives deep into the emotional toll and offers practical tools t…
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In this powerful episode, Recovery of Your Family Begins With YOU!, I share a story I heard in Al-Anon that stopped me in my tracks—a story that helped me see how my efforts to “smooth things over” in a home affected by alcoholism were actually hurting more than helping. Children don’t need everything to look okay. They need someone who is okay—som…
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Have you ever wondered why addiction recovery often fails, even with detox and rehab? The key may lie in untreated trauma and mental health struggles. Many people battling addiction are unknowingly self-medicating underlying mental health conditions like PTSD, anxiety, or depression. Without addressing both addiction and trauma together, recovery c…
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Did you know that home detox can be just as—if not more—effective than rehab for many people struggling with substance use? Learn how home-based treatment, when done right, can lead to lasting recovery and keep families involved in the process. Many families face the heartbreaking cycle of addiction and relapse, often feeling lost when traditional …
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In the journey of recovery, Step Eight is a pivotal stage where individuals courageously face the consequences of their past actions and begin the path towards healing. This step involves making a list of all persons we have harmed and becoming willing to make amends to them all. Through the narratives and reflections provided by... The post Recogn…
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Send your questions to the show! [email protected] Our kids are looking to us for guidance on how to navigate all of this. They can get caught up in the confusion and the family disease of alcoholism. As the wife of an alcoholic and the momma to these souls, and future ACOA members what can you be doing to help them to get through this too!?…
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What if the biggest myth about addiction recovery is actually keeping people trapped? Could harm minimisation be the key to breaking the cycle for good? For years, many people—including parents of those struggling with addiction—believe that full abstinence is the only path to recovery. But what if that belief is causing more harm than good? In thi…
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What if addiction treatment was as simple as making a phone call? Could accessible, at-home detox be the key to saving lives? Many families struggle to find timely and effective treatment for loved ones facing substance dependence. Traditional detox and rehab programs often come with long wait times, high costs, and significant stigma. But what if …
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The impact of alcoholism on me was IMMENSE! However, my kids were experiencing all of this too through the littlest eyes and innoent hearts! I did not used to know how to lead them through all of this! Addiction really impacted our family! I have learned SO many tools and nuggets of wisdom over the years that helped me to navigate what our family w…
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What if the key to helping your loved one in addiction wasn’t pushing them to change, but showing up with steady support? When a child or loved one is deep in substance use, it’s easy to feel like their destructive behavior is who they really are. But what if we separated the person from their addiction? In this episode, we explore how judgment and…
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We dive into the creative journeys of Karen B and Katie P, two singer-songwriters whose paths have been shaped by their experiences in recovery programs such as Al-Anon and ACA (Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Families). In their stories, they share how personal recovery has enriched and informed their artistic expression, providing …
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What if everything you thought you knew about addiction recovery was wrong? Many families struggle with the fear that offering support means enabling, while others believe their loved one must hit rock bottom to change. But what if these ideas are doing more harm than good? In this episode, we uncover the real keys to helping a child overcome addic…
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Tune in to hear ONE thing that God taught me during this painful lonely season. Being married to an alcoholic who thinks that everything is FINE is SO frustrating! Active addiction is exhausting. AA says that Alcohol is "Cunning, Baffling and Powerful" and it is SO True. The one person that I wanted to talk to was the one person who was also hurtin…
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Have you ever wondered why your child seems to drift further away the deeper they fall into addiction? Addiction isolates, making users feel like ghosts watching life pass them by. The deeper they go, the harder it becomes for them to connect with the world outside their substance use. As parents, we often focus on our own fears and struggles, but …
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How can you support a loved one struggling with addiction without enabling harmful behaviours? Many parents feel torn between wanting to help their child and fearing they might be making things worse. The old-school "tough love" approach can be damaging, yet setting boundaries is crucial. In this episode, we discuss the vital role of family support…
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Today hear the ONE thing I did that helped me to start leaning on those that God had placed in my life. To bear someone else’s burden is a powerful expression of love and compassion, reminding us that we are not meant to walk through life alone. I needed friends and family to support myself and my children and ultimately my husband through this mes…
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How do you stay strong when your child’s only focus is their next fix? When addiction completely consumes a loved one, it can feel like you’re losing them—and yourself—in the process. As parents, we want to rescue our children, but the painful reality is that we can’t control their choices. The key is learning how to hold onto hope while prioritizi…
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Rehab is just the beginning—what happens next makes all the difference. Did you know that nearly two-thirds of people relapse within a year of leaving rehab? Discover the three essential steps that can double the chances of long-term recovery. Many parents believe that getting their child into rehab is the hardest part, but the real challenge begin…
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Is rehab the right choice for your child right now? Many parents rush into treatment hoping for a quick fix, but there’s one crucial question that can determine whether rehab will actually work. Rehab isn’t a magic cure—it only works when your child is truly ready. In this episode, we break down why timing matters more than the treatment itself, th…
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Connect with me at [email protected] When the confusion and gaslighting are a normal way of life in your alchoholic marriage, and life is flying at you so fast, it is so hard to even recognize where to begin setting BOUNDARIES. Today I share my top foundational boundaries to begin with. Setting boundaries is never an easy task when addiction…
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How do you know if a rehab centre actually works? Many treatment centres make big claims—but without real success data, you could be wasting time, money, and risking your loved one’s recovery. When your child or loved one needs addiction treatment, choosing the right rehab is one of the most important decisions you'll ever make. But with misleading…
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In a world where substance use and addiction take numerous forms, support groups tailored to specific needs are invaluable. Mar-Anon is one such group providing support to those affected by cannabis use disorder in their loved ones. Inspired by the Al-Anon program, Mar-Anon offers a space for families and friends to find connection and understandin…
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Have you ever felt an overwhelming sense of grief for something that hasn’t even happened yet? Parents of children struggling with addiction often experience this painful reality—mourning their child’s possible loss before it even occurs. Loving someone with a substance use disorder is an emotional rollercoaster filled with fear, exhaustion, and he…
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What if your grief started long before your child was gone? Many parents of children with substance use disorders experience anticipatory grief, mourning the future they imagined while their child is still alive. The stigma surrounding drug use often prevents life-saving conversations. In this episode, Jenny Ross-King shares her journey of loss, th…
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Connect with me at [email protected] Lying about drinking is SO COMMON in alcoholic marriages! Christians are not immune to the lying and gaslighting! Have you experienced this? I never want to accuse someone of doing something, but if the proof is there it is SO CONFUSING for us as wives! Send me your QUESTIONS! [email protected] Wan…
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Grief is an inevitable and multifaceted part of life that can touch us in many ways, far beyond the loss of a loved one. In this episode, we explore how the principles and tools of recovery can help us find relief from grief by accepting change, embracing emotional growth, and connecting deeply with others. Understanding... The post Grief and Relie…
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Are fear-based drug talks actually putting your child at greater risk? Discover why the traditional "just say no" approach often fails—and what you can do instead. As a parent, you want to protect your child from the dangers of drugs. But outdated, fear-driven conversations can push them away rather than help them make safer choices. In this episod…
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Would you know what to say if your child told you they were considering taking drugs at a festival? Many parents believe their child would never use drugs—until tragedy strikes. In this episode, Jenny Ross-King shares the heartbreaking story of losing her daughter, Alex, to an MDMA overdose at a music festival. Her experience highlights the urgent …
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Is your body warning you before it’s too late? Burnout isn’t just in your mind—it’s in your body, too. Learn how to recognise the hidden physical toll of supporting a child struggling with addiction. As a parent of a child with substance dependence, the stress can feel relentless. You push through, thinking you have no choice—but at what cost? If y…
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Connect with me at [email protected] It is the ultimate question! Join me as I pour out my heart on this topic that often took me captive and ran through my head on repeat! I didn't want to have to make an impossible choice! Do you find yourself thinking about these two options and trying to decide what to do? This is VERY common!! If I stay…
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Heather relates her experience growing up in dysfunction, and her journey to recovery through therapy, Al-Anon and ACA (Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Families). Understanding Family Dysfunction Many of us have grown up in environments marked by dysfunction, often without realizing the full extent until adulthood. Heather’s story re…
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Are you overwhelmed by stress and struggling to cope as a parent of a child using substances? Addiction doesn’t just impact the person using substances; it can leave parents feeling mentally, emotionally, and physically drained. This episode introduces somatic healing, a powerful, body-based approach that offers immediate relief and helps parents r…
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Are You Burning Out While Trying to Save Your Child? 🛑 Are you fighting to save your child but feeling like you’re losing yourself in the process? When a loved one is struggling with substance use, it’s easy for parents to pour everything into saving them—often at the cost of their own mental and emotional health. But what if prioritising your well…
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Spencer and Misti, with listener contributions, explore a challenging topic for those who have loved ones grappling with addiction: cutting or limiting contact. We hare personal stories and insights about creating and respecting boundaries to protect our emotional well-being. Whether it's temporary, permanent, or situational, the act of establishin…
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How do you recognise the silent toll addiction takes on your emotional well-being as a parent? Burnout is a hidden challenge many parents face when supporting a child struggling with addiction. This episode uncovers how to spot the early signs of burnout, embrace radical acceptance, and set boundaries that allow you to care for both yourself and yo…
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“ I feel like his mother!” Did you get married expecting a spouse and a life partner? Do you need someone to lean on and instead end up picking up all of the slack PLUS handling his stuff too? Are you struggling with conflicting thoughts on how to navigate these feelings? We will dive into the reasons that I believe contribute to this dynamic espec…
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Are you constantly exhausted, feeling like you have nothing left to give? If you're a parent supporting a child struggling with substance use, burnout can sneak up on you before you even realise it. Many parents put their own well-being last while trying to help their child. But the truth is, running on empty doesn't just hurt you—it also limits yo…
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How do you recognise the silent toll addiction takes on your emotional well-being as a parent? Burnout is a hidden challenge many parents face when supporting a child struggling with addiction. This episode uncovers how to spot the early signs of burnout, embrace radical acceptance, and set boundaries that allow you to care for both yourself and yo…
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Are you struggling to accept the reality of your child’s challenges with substance use? Discover how embracing radical acceptance can help you find peace amidst the chaos. Parenting through the turmoil of a child’s drug use can leave you feeling stuck, grieving the future you once envisioned for them. This episode explores how letting go of expecta…
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Do you feel emotionally drained while supporting a loved one with addiction and wonder how to keep going? Addiction impacts not just the individual but the entire family, leaving parents overwhelmed by constant worry, sleepless nights, and a relentless emotional toll. This episode reveals how to recognise emotional exhaustion and take steps to recl…
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At the beginning of a new year, I like to take some time to reflect on the past year, and to set some intentions for the new year. (Please note: intentions are not resolutions!) This year, I took these questions from another email group I'm a member of, and asked you to reflect on them.... The post Reflections on 2024 – 426 appeared first on The Re…
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