18. Why do we mourn our past selves?

Trial & Error & Error Podcast

Summary

In this episode of the Trial and Error Podcast, hosts Ale and LJ explore the themes of nostalgia, personal evolution, and the complexities of identity as they reflect on their past selves. They discuss the emotional landscape of nostalgia, the impact of life choices, and the balance between appreciating who we were and embracing who we are becoming. The conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing the gifts of personal growth while acknowledging the challenges of change.

Takeaways

• We often miss the versions of ourselves that were more carefree.
• Nostalgia can bring both joy and sadness.
• Life choices significantly shape our identities.
• The Polyanna effect influences how we remember the past.
• The future is uncertain, just as the past was.
• Nostalgia is common in our 20s due to many life changes.
• We can't go back to who we used to be.
• Embracing change is essential for personal growth.
• Our past selves are part of our current identity.
• Change should be viewed as an exciting journey.