Episode 273: ‘My Favorite Gender’ (Trixie Lamonte)

Bawdy Storytelling

Would you fly 3000 miles for ‘strange’ sex? Kinky, queer, poly sex educator Trixie Lamonte loves anonymous sex, but they’re way too social and know too many people - a one night stand won’t work at home. So this frustrated extrovert decides to travel across the country to visit a brand new city with a high-ranked queer nightclub, and just to be safe, dons a disguise. Things are working out: Genderqueer hotties on the dance floor? Check. An invite to hook up with a nonbinary supermodel? YES! It’s all going well until someone blows their cover…. #GayestOfTheGay #ProstethicVsBio

Song: ’Body was Made’ (Ezra Furman)

Queer l Trans | NonBinary | Resilient Identity l Anonymous Sex l Travel l Myers-Briggs l Grindr l Scruff | Bumble l Hinge l Gay Male l Femme l Gender Neutral Bathroom | David Bowie l Lady Gaga l Safer Sex | Roleplay l Bat Mitzvah l Restraints l Body Parts l 90’s Music l Queer Nightclub l Spice Girls l Squirting l Nipple Clamps l Bio Cock l Energizer Bunny l Switch l Building Community l

About our Storyteller:

Trixie Lamonte is a rebel in the streets and freak in the sheets: Professional sex educator, workshop facilitator, performer, writer, ritualist, relationship and confidence coach, inspirational speaker, and host of Gender Blender play parties. Trixie is well known for shaking their ass for justice, rebel rousing gender norms, and being delightfully playful. Trixie's work has taken them all over the US and internationally with a focus on intersectionality, commitment to working from a liberation lens, and creating communities across diverse cultural backgrounds. Trixie is proud to be kinky, queer, poly, and fabulous. Trixie infuses joy and creativity into all aspects of life. You can find out more at www.polyexcellent.com

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