Forgiveness and Reconciliation

Cornerstone on the Go

Jesus offers a revolutionary approach to handling conflict in Matthew 5:38-42, challenging the misapplication of 'an eye for an eye' that had become a personal license for revenge. He teaches us to overcome evil with good rather than escalating conflicts through retaliation. This doesn't mean we should never resist evil or remain in abusive situations, but rather that we should break the cycle of vengeance in our personal relationships.Jesus provides four practical examples: turning the other cheek when insulted rather than responding in kind; going beyond minimum requirements when making amends for our wrongs; willingly serving others even when our rights are being infringed upon; and giving generously to those in genuine need. The devastating multi-generational feud between the Hatfields and McCoys stands as a stark warning about the consequences of refusing forgiveness, while Mary Johnson's remarkable journey of forgiving and eventually befriending O'Shea Israel, the man who murdered her son, demonstrates the transformative power of grace. By absorbing offenses rather than retaliating, we follow God's example, who absorbed our sins through Christ to reconcile us to Himself.