01 December 2023 - Sex, Gender, and Sexuality

Gender Identity Weekly

Today I speak with the one and only Ossiana Tepfenhart, who covered the adult film industry as a journalist and has written on topics from music to politics to sex. Ossiana and I discuss Lolita fashion, control freaks, and why we should not be embarrassed to appreciate a good orgasm.

REFERENCES:
Find Ossiana on Substack: https://ossiana.substack.com/
Find Ossiana on Medium: https://medium.com/@ossiana.tepfenhart
Find The Refugee Newsletter on Substack: https://therefugee.substack.com/
Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.com/

• (00:00) - Show opening
• (00:35) - Introducing Ossiana
• (03:46) - Gender, beauty, and sexuality
• (09:01) - Unreal social expectations
• (11:27) - Ami defines gender and sexuality in 10 words or less
• (14:45) - Sex and gender are more than physical
• (18:26) - Beauty is not (always) symmetrical
• (23:26) - Scary sells...really well
• (29:28) - Sex is not a bad thing
• (33:42) - Victorian era repression
• (38:19) - Shame as a means of control
• (40:50) - Slut-shaming and society
• (45:00) - Forbidden fruit
• (48:59) - Abuse at the hands of those not getting any
• (51:43) - Show closing

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