20. The Perils of Judgment and Blame – How to Let Go when You Feel Wronged - Episode 20

Parents At Work Podcast

Most of us are honest enough to recognise when we are speaking or acting without love – for example when we get angry at the kids when they abandon their chores for the umpteenth time OR get frustrated at a colleague for doing a task without care OR release our tension on a telecom provider (most of us know that one!). But does it really need to be like this? Sometimes we excuse behaviours or reactions that lack love by saying ‘we’re all human’ or ‘no one’s perfect’ and then hope it doesn’t catch up with us later on. It may be true that we are human and will never be perfect but what if our lofty dismissal is the groundwork for underlying judgement and blame in our relationships? And what if we could stop it in an instant simply by removing our need to be ‘right’? Join Katie and Sam for what’s sure to be an explorative and expansive discussion.