The Truth About 'Fake It Till You Make It'—And Why It Fails at the Top

The Executive Perspective with Neal Reyes

"Fake it till you make it" might get you through the early stages—but it won't keep you in the room when the spotlight hits. In this episode, Neal Reyes shatters the myth of manufactured confidence and dives deep into what real readiness looks like at the highest levels of leadership and performance. From professional athletes to high-performing business leaders, the people who succeed aren’t the ones who talk big—they’re the ones who train in the dark so they can shine in the light. This episode is a battle cry for excellence, ownership, and preparation. If you’re aiming for the big leagues, this message will help you get—and stay—there.

🔑 What You'll Learn:

• Why consistency, discipline, and preparation can’t be faked
• How high performers get ready before the opportunity arrives
• Why “fake it till you make it” collapses under real pressure
• The difference between confidence and competence
• What the spotlight always reveals—and how to be ready for it

💥 Leadership Truth Bombs:

• “You don’t rise to the occasion—you fall to the level of your preparation.”
• “Confidence without competence is just noise.”
• “Fake it till you make it might fly in the kiddie pool, but the deep end demands the real deal.”
• “Prepared people don’t need to fake it—they prove it.”

Chapters:

• 00:07 - Understanding Readiness
• 05:59 - The Importance of Readiness
• 11:09 - The Importance of Readiness and Preparation
• 15:08 - The Spotlight and Readiness
• 22:03 - The Importance of Preparation and Self-Mastery
• 27:29 - Cultivating Readiness and Ownership

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