The Hidden Reason Most Relationships Fail – And How to Fix It Fast

Couples Development: Real Love, Challenges, & Solutions

Most relationships don’t fail because of cheating or incompatibility—they fail for a hidden reason that no one talks about.

In this episode, Coach Melissa Rochelle breaks down key insights from the book "Stronger Than You Think" and reveals:

🔹 The surprising reason most relationships fall apart

🔹 Why trying to change your partner is actually hurting your connection

🔹 How your "ideal self" influences who you choose as a partner

🔹 The Michelangelo Phenomenon – Why great relationships bring out your best self

🔹 4 powerful questions to determine if your relationship is expanding or holding you back

🔹 How to create a shared vision with your partner to build long-term happiness

🚨 "The key to a strong relationship isn’t changing your partner—it’s growing together."

💡 If you’ve ever felt stuck, unseen, or disconnected in your relationship, this episode will help you break free and build the love you deserve.

📌 Resources Mentioned:

📖 Book: "Stronger Than You Think" – https://www.amazon.com/Stronger-Than-You-Think-Relationship/dp/0316454710

🎥 Watch the Full Discussion on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oIPhMiIYYTY&t=167s

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