“If we march into that village and we start trying to persecute people for using poison, something that's very illegal, nobody's going to talk to us. We're not going to find out where the poison came from. We're not going to be able to shut anything down. We should take the approach that people are using poison because they're desperate, because they see no other alternative.” – Andrew Stein Andrew Stein is a wildlife ecologist who spent the past 25 years studying human carnivore conflict from African wild dogs and lions in Kenya and Botswana to leopards and hyenas in Namibia. His work has long focused on finding ways for people and predators to coexist. He is the founder of CLAWS , an organization based in Botswana that's working at the intersection of cutting-edge wildlife research and community driven conservation. Since its start in 2014 and official launch as an NGO in 2020, CLAWS has been pioneering science-based, tech-forward strategies to reduce conflict between people and carnivores. By collaborating closely with local communities, especially traditional cattle herders, CLAWS supports both species conservation and rural livelihoods—making coexistence not just possible, but sustainable.…
In this episode of Slightly Off Script, hosts Bethany and Andy Needham discuss the ups and downs of marriage while tackling personal and health challenges. Join them as they navigate through emotional detachment, frustration, and mismatched expectations, sharing their experiences with honesty, humor, and love. With anecdotes about Pilates classes, doctor visits, and unexpected connections, Bethany and Andy emphasize the importance of communication, small moments of affection, and staying united as a team in difficult times. Tune in for a heartfelt and insightful conversation that reminds us all that marriage, while sometimes stupid, can be profoundly rewarding and wickedly fun. Order Slightly Off Script Merch (incluidng the Bethany Needham Band>) 00:00 Introduction and Hosts' Banter 00:58 Andy’s Pastoral Encounter 02:26 Bethany’s Pilates Experience 06:57 Medical Challenges and Frustrations 12:56 Navigating Weariness in Marriage 21:22 Emotional Detachment in Relationships 21:52 Guilt and Guarding in Marriage 22:50 Sharing Discomfort Unequally 23:23 Resentment and Victim Mode 25:15 Healthy Communication and Boundaries 31:46 Balancing Checking In and Giving Space 34:54 Micro Moments of Connection 38:39 Lament and Joy Mingled Together 41:47 Sticking Together Through Challenges 45:10 Final Thoughts and Farewell…
Join hosts Bethany and Andy Needham on this episode of 'Slightly Off Script: The Marriage Show' as they dive into the complexities of new season and expectations around sex. They delve into sensitive yet essential topics like intimacy, God's design for marriage, and the importance of open, honest communication. Expect practical advice, heartfelt stories, and lots of humor. Don't forget to check out their new merchandise and stay tuned for an exciting giveaway announcement! Order Slightly Off Script Merch (incluidng the Bethany Needham Band>) 00:00 Welcome to Slightly Off Script 00:27 Playful Banter and Mr. Universe 01:31 Weather Woes and Live Podcast Questions 03:03 Dream Destinations and Fun Activities 03:54 Emoji Descriptions and Daily Joys 07:22 Memories and Parenting Phases 13:40 Empty Nest and Relationship Dynamics 23:41 Balancing Ministry and Personal Time 24:29 Recalibrating Relational Rhythms 24:35 Embracing New Opportunities in Marriage 25:40 The Importance of Open Communication 26:14 Defining Marriage Values 27:30 Navigating Intimacy in an Empty Nest 29:29 The Role of Intimacy in Marriage 32:26 Honest Conversations About Intimacy 38:11 Humor and Flexibility in Marriage 38:52 Managing Expectations and Health in Intimacy 47:55 Merchandise and Podcast Wrap-Up…
In this episode Bethany and Andy share a series of unexpected events from their daily lives, including a shattered car window mishap that leads to an intriguing police investigation. Bethany interviews Dr. Sandra Dalton-Smith, a rest expert, who provides an in-depth look into the seven types of rest and how they impact our lives, marriages, and families. This conversation offers valuable insights into identifying and addressing various rest deficits, making it a must-listen for anyone feeling overwhelmed by life's demands. Order Slightly Off Script Merch (incluidng the Bethany Needham Band>) Connect with Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith: https://www.drdaltonsmith.com/ Take the Rest Quiz: https://www.restquiz.com/ Buy Dr. Saundra's Books 00:00 Introduction to the Marriage Show 01:47 Bethany's Pilates Adventure 02:36 The Mystery of the Smashed Window 04:33 Dealing with the Aftermath 11:23 A Favor Gone Wrong 14:45 Special Episode on Rest 15:55 Interview with Dr. Sandra Dalton Smith 17:13 Introduction to Rest and Burnout 17:51 The Seven Types of Rest 18:13 Physical and Mental Rest Explained 19:40 Spiritual and Emotional Rest 21:14 Social, Sensory, and Creative Rest 25:27 Rest Strategies for Families and Couples 32:15 Practical Tips for Identifying and Addressing Rest Deficits 38:03 Conclusion and Final Thoughts 42:10 Podcast Outro and Personal Anecdotes…
Join hosts Bethany and Andy Needham on 'Slightly Off Script' as they dive into the intersection of marriage and physical health. In this episode, they explore how staying physically active and maintaining good health can positively impact your relationship. From discussing their own fitness journeys to sharing practical tips on nutrition, exercise, and overall wellness, Bethany and Andy provide valuable insights for couples at any stage of their health journey. They emphasize keeping things simple and sustainable, recognizing the impact of hormones, stress, and seasonal life changes, and offer advice on being supportive partners in each other's fitness goals. Tune in for an engaging blend of personal anecdotes, humor, and real-life strategies to build a stronger, healthier marriage. 00:00 Introduction to the Show 00:53 The Guitar Story 02:18 Andy’s Minor Surgery 05:46 Health and Wellness Discussion 09:24 Bethany’s Diet Confessions 15:25 Addressing Root Causes of Health Issues 20:30 Investing in Health 22:10 Personal Fitness Journey 23:23 Investing in Health 26:40 Finding the Right Fitness Routine 30:42 Women and Weightlifting 34:51 Supporting Each Other in Fitness 36:48 Balancing Exercise and Rest 39:02 Mental Health and Fitness 42:05 Setting Realistic Fitness Goals 45:22 Final Thoughts and Encouragement…
Join Bethany and Andy Needham in this episode of 'Slightly Off Script,' as they navigate the complexities of marriage and parenting. Despite technical difficulties and humorous surprises, including a playful introduction of 'Bethany Needham Band' merchandise, the couple dives deep into the realities of raising kids while maintaining a strong marriage. They discuss the pressures and expectations from themselves and others, the importance of repentance and forgiveness, and their dedication to 'marriage first parenting.' Tune in for heartfelt reflections, practical advice, and a reminder to walk in grace as imperfect parents. 00:00 Introduction and Host Banter 00:47 Technical Difficulties and Worship Leading 02:58 The Bethany Needham Band Reveal 08:44 Parenting Reflections and Expectations 16:13 Navigating Family Affirmation 16:59 Dealing with Social Media and Parenting Expectations 18:59 Parenting Through Imperfections 23:22 Handling Children's Behavioral Issues 27:11 Owning Mistakes and Apologizing to Kids 35:55 Balancing Marriage and Parenting 40:30 Grace-Filled Imperfect Parenting 43:23 Closing Thoughts and Merchandise…
Join hosts Bethany and Andy Needham for a special live recording of 'Slightly Off Script, the Marriage Show' from Jaffrey, New Hampshire. In this episode, the couple tackles a variety of audience-submitted questions about marriage dynamics, including balancing family values, handling young children without reliable childcare, and navigating through serious conflicts. The episode also delves into the importance of community and professional counseling in maintaining a healthy relationship. With anecdotes, personal experiences, and a lot of humor, Bethany and Andy offer practical advice and heartfelt insights into what makes a marriage both challenging and rewarding. Don't miss their first-ever live studio audience experience filled with laughs, honesty, and valuable lessons. 00:00 Welcome to the Marriage Show 00:59 Live Studio Audience Fun 02:26 Q&A Begins: Unique Questions 04:00 Marriage Values and Family 08:26 Date Nights with Young Kids 14:28 Handling Serious Marital Issues 23:06 Roles and Responsibilities in Marriage 28:51 Parenting Teenagers 32:44 Closing Remarks…
Welcome to 'Slightly Off Script,' the marriage show where hosts Bethany and Andy Needham explore the entertaining and meaningful aspects of married life. In this episode, Bethany and Andy dive into the topic of differences within a relationship, sharing how their unique traits complement each other and sometimes create friction. Through humorous and insightful conversations, they discuss empathy, organization, adventure, spontaneity, and the importance of hard conversations. They also highlight how appreciating and celebrating each other's differences can strengthen the bond between partners. Tune in for relatable anecdotes, practical advice, and an engaging look at how to make the most of what makes you and your partner unique. Plus, get some fun food tips and hear about their latest cravings! 00:00 Introduction and Snow Day Vibes 01:03 Marriage Devotional Insights 02:07 Seasonal Enjoyments and Dislikes 07:50 Powerlifting Aspirations and Sponsorship Ideas 11:47 Embracing Differences in Relationships 17:27 Reflecting on Leadership and Organization 19:22 Balancing Perfectionism and Practicality 20:30 Navigating Household Responsibilities 23:49 Embracing Adventure and Planning 29:32 Fearless Conversations and Conflict Resolution 33:14 Growth Through Marriage and Work 38:02 Encouragement for Married Couples 41:50 Conclusion and Listener Engagement…
In this episode of Slightly Off Script, Bethany and Andy bring levity and laughter while diving deep into the importance of investing in marriage. They reminisce about quirky past moments and share candid conversations about their relationship dynamics. Additionally, they discuss community, authenticity, mission, and play, revealing their strategies for maintaining a strong and fun marriage. Tune in for tips on how to create intentional connections, embrace the art of hospitality, and find joy in simple getaways. From humorous anecdotes to heartwarming insights, this episode is a reminder that marriage can indeed be 'stupid good and wicked fun. 00:00 Introduction and Opening Banter 01:13 Snowstorm and Winter Talk 03:58 Investing in Your Marriage 04:32 Surprise Questions Game 05:14 Memorable Moments and Hairstyles 11:19 Food Preferences and Fun Questions 18:19 Public Restroom Woes 18:57 Investments in Marriage 19:46 Creating a Hospitable Home 21:03 Fire Pit Conversations 23:54 Bible Study Date Nights 25:06 Authenticity in Marriage 26:37 Therapy and Wise Counsel 27:47 Morning Check-ins 29:36 Open Access and Accountability 32:45 Serving Together3 6:33 Bedroom Upgrades 40:17 Intentional Getaways 40:56 Cruising and Relaxation 44:37 Final Thoughts and Farewell…
Welcome to Slightly Off Script! In this episode, we dive into the world of personality tests and what they can reveal about marriage dynamics. Join Bethany and Andy Needham as they share their thoughts on various personality profiles like Myers-Briggs, StrengthsFinder, Enneagram, and others. We explore what they have learned about themselves and each other through these assessments and discuss how their personalities have changed over time. Plus, we share a newly discovered profile about apology languages and how it highlights the differences in how we value apologies. Tune in for a candid conversation packed with insights, laughs, and a few profiles worth considering! 00:00 Welcome to Slightly Off Script 00:51 New Studio Vibes 02:27 Bethany's New Hobby: Powerlifting 05:42 Listener Question: Beneficial Tools for Understanding Each Other 09:04 Avoidance vs. Idolization of Personality Tests 17:01 Good Scripts: Helpful, Fallible Tools 20:33 The Polaroid Analogy 22:27 First Encounters with Personality Tests 25:19 Diving into Different Personality Profiles 27:24 Themes and Changes in Personality 36:14 The Apology Language Profile 40:42 Upcoming Episodes and Conclusion…
In this episode of 'Slightly Off Script,' Bethany and Andy Needham engage in an authentic and lively discussion about the ups and downs of dating, whether single or married. Beginning humorously with the now unneeded pre-recording claps, they delve into essential topics such as the significance of community, maintaining authenticity, and balancing fun in a relationship. They reflect on their own marriage values and how these translate into healthy dating practices. Sharing personal stories of faith and relationships, the episode covers practical advice for singles looking to date and for married folks supporting their single friends. Tune in for meaningful insights, laughter, and a reminder that whether single, dating, or married, life can be 'stupid good and wicked fun.' LIVE PODCAST EVENT LINK: Learn more and register for the March 7th Live Podcast and Date Night in Jaffrey, NH at https://www.hopejaffrey.org/current-events 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Setup 00:32 Welcome to Slightly Off Script 00:54 Clapping Confessions 02:17 Moving to a New Studio 03:00 Small Beefs and Healthy Conflict 03:32 The Chapstick Incident 05:31 Listener Question: Dating Advice 06:11 Date Night Adventures 10:27 Discussing Singleness and Marriage 19:55 Navigating Singleness and Faithfulness 21:28 The Challenges of Modern Dating 22:53 Finding Godly Partners in a Post-Christian World 23:33 The Role of Community in Dating 27:21 Online Dating: A New Frontier 29:29 Biblical Guidance on Relationships 33:08 Principles for Healthy Dating 41:36 Advice for Married Couples Supporting Singles 42:49 Final Thoughts and Encouragement…
In this episode of Slightly Off Script, we dive into the controversial topic of purity culture and the True Love Waits movement. Join hosts Bethany and Andrew David Needham as they reflect on the good intentions, the problematic aspects, and the lasting impact of purity messages they encountered as teenagers in the 90s and early 2000s. From the teaching of biblical sexual ethics to the harmful overemphasis on virginity, we explore our personal experiences and share insights on what we've learned. We also discuss how to approach these topics with grace, truth, and a balanced perspective for the next generation. Thank you for your questions that sparked this meaningful and complex conversation! ARTICLES WE REFERENCED The FAQs: What You Should Know About Purity Culture https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/faqs-know-purity-culture/ Critique Purity Culture, but Teach Sexual Ethics to Teens https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/purity-culture-sexual-ethics-teens LIVE PODCAST EVENT LINK: Learn more and register for the March 7th Live Podcast and Date Night in Jaffrey, NH at https://www.hopejaffrey.org/current-events 00:00 Welcome to Slightly Off Script 00:33 Bethany's Middle Name Story 02:19 Hair Pampering Weekend 03:50 Compliments and Insecurities 06:13 Introduction to Purity Culture 08:13 Defining Purity Culture 16:10 Critiques and Reflections 19:10 Personal Experiences with Purity Culture 25:02 The Grip of Pornography in Teenage Years 26:09 True Love Waits and Technical Virginity 26:47 The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly of Purity Culture 26:57 Positive Aspects of Purity Culture 30:52 Critiquing Purity Culture: The Focus on Virginity 36:46 Modesty and Judgment in Purity Culture 43:38 The Sexual Prosperity Gospel 47:56 Concluding Thoughts and Future Conversations…
Welcome to Slightly Off Script, the marriage show with Bethany and Andy Needham, where we remind you that marriage can be stupid good and wicked fun! In this episode, we dive into the nuances of handling everyday conflicts and the more significant crises in marriage. Bethany and Andy share personal stories, practical advice, and the importance of having a solid foundation in Christ. They discuss the differences between small, everyday storms and larger, life-altering hurricanes while offering insights into maintaining a healthy and happy marriage amidst these challenges. Tune in to learn about recognizing patterns, setting boundaries, and having those crucial 2 a.m. friends. Don't forget to subscribe, like, and share if you find this helpful! EVENT LINK: Learn more and register for the March 7th Live Podcast and Date Night in Jaffrey, NH at https://www.hopejaffrey.org/ 00:00 Episode 12 00:02 Welcome to Slightly Off Script 01:14 Memorable Date Disasters 10:01 Navigating Conflict in Marriage 19:40 Navigating Tough Terrain in Marriage 19:52 Finding the Right Solutions for Your Relationship 21:11 Recognizing and Addressing Patterns 22:01 Self-Reflection and Emotional Awareness 24:00 Overlooking vs. Ignoring Issues 24:51 Building Strategies for Conflict 26:44 Handling External Stressors 27:49 Crisis Management in Marriage 31:13 Dealing with Internal Struggles 35:58 The Importance of External Support 39:17 Rebuilding After the Storm 45:51 Concluding Thoughts on Conflict…
This week Bethany and Andy Needham delve into the complexities of handling conflict in marriage. With humor and openness, we share personal experiences, practical strategies, and the importance of self-reflection. We discuss everything from common pitfalls like 'catastrophizing' and 'the always and never trap' to showing appreciation and understanding for one another. Stay tuned as we announce an exciting live event and reflect on how the fruit of the spirit has shaped our relationship over 22 years. EVENT LINK: Learn more and register for the March 7th Live Podcast and Date Night in Jaffrey, NH at https://www.hopejaffrey.org/ 00:00 Introduction and Hosts Banter 01:09 Weekend Recap and New Job 01:36 Travel and Household Dynamics 02:25 Cooking and Appreciation 05:39 Market Basket and Grocery Stores 07:40 Conflict in Marriage 08:42 Practical Conflict Resolution Tips 17:13 Misunderstanding Scripture in Conflict 20:57 Rebuilding Trust Over Time 21:25 Avoiding Absolutes in Conflict 23:29 The Dangers of Passive Aggressiveness 28:41 The Power of Listening to Understand 34:31 Reflecting on Personal Growth 39:25 Upcoming Live Podcast Event…
Join hosts Bethany and Andy Needham in this episode of Slightly Off Script as we discuss the hilarities and trials of married life. From reminiscing about Andy's rock star days a decade ago to the woes of their Sleep Number bed repair, they provide insight into the realities of marriage. They dive deep into personal and candid discussions about conflict and overcoming challenges in their relationship, emphasizing the importance of community, repentance, and understanding the Gospel in building a strong foundation. 00:00 Introduction to the Marriage Show 00:37 Reflecting on Aging and Life Changes 01:29 The Sleep Number Bed Saga 06:57 Listener Requests: Discussing Conflict 09:44 Early Marriage Challenges and Misunderstandings 18:33 Struggles with Identity and Marriage Expectations 20:23 Conflict and Miscommunication 26:52 The Role of Community in Healing 28:47 True Repentance and Conflict Resolution 38:18 Vulnerability and Moving Forward 38:50 Closing Remarks and Future Topics…
On this episode of 'Slightly Off Script', we delve into the highs and lows of recent weeks, including tackling the flu, setting New Year resolutions, and the challenges of sticking to them. We discuss the importance of maintaining daily routines, stewardship of health, and the value of reflecting on the past year. Bethany talks about prioritizing her time with God, while Andy shares his resolve to embrace change and disappoint people when necessary. Enjoy their candid conversation filled with humor, personal insights, and practical tips for navigating life's ups and downs. Submit your question for a future episode: https://www.bethanyneedham.com/podcast 00:00 Introduction and Hosts 00:20 Flu Stories and Urgent Care 03:08 New Year's Reflections 09:03 Setting Realistic Goals 16:09 Social Media and Personal Connections 19:52 Disclaimers and Rules 20:15 Appreciating Home and Budgeting 21:13 Health and Fitness Goals 25:45 New Job and Leadership Challenges 27:18 Marker 29:21 Spiritual Priorities and Daily Practices 33:57 Friendships and Creativity 35:35 Podcast Reflections and Listener Engagement 36:45 Upcoming Topics and Farewell…
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