(#17) Coaching Session: Transforming Your Inner Dialogue

Stop Bending Over - Align Your Life For Radical Success

Summary:
In this transformative episode of the "Stop Bending Over Podcast," host Rita Marie Mendez, offers listeners a deep dive into overcoming limiting beliefs and negative internal dialogues. Known for her no-nonsense guidance towards radical success, Rita provides insights into an area that many find elusive: the mental barriers that constrain our personal and professional potential.
Rita coaches a real estate agent who has faced challenges in her business, showcasing a powerful session centered on dissecting and resolving underlying issues of self-worth and productivity. Through a candid discussion, we uncover the guest's struggles with maintaining a work-life balance and an internal push to produce results that have inadvertently led to burnout. Rita skillfully navigates the conversation to reveal the roots of these issues, offering actionable advice and reflective exercises to foster personal healing and development.
Key Takeaways:
Identifying Limiting Beliefs: The episode delves into how negative internal dialogues and limiting beliefs can manifest in various aspects of life, often disguised as different problems.
Impact of Childhood Experiences: Rita explores the connection between the guest's childhood experiences and current patterns of self-pressure.
The Power of Self-Kindness: A significant focus is placed on the importance of self-care and treating oneself with kindness as a way to undo self-imposed pressures and unrealistic expectations.
Emotional Expression and Healing: Rita encourages the guest to embrace vulnerability and emotional expression as a form of strength, moving away from feelings of guilt and inadequacy.
Habits for Personal Growth: The conversation concludes with actionable steps for the guest, involving journaling and intentional self-reflection, aiming to align her actions with a more nurturing approach to success.
In this episode:
0:08:11
Rita challenges the client's excuses and invites her to explore the real reason for her low results
0:13:26
Client acknowledges her weakness of not being able to shut off work
0:15:11
Rita challenges the client's justification and identifies the sense of urgency as coming from a place of lack
0:18:46
Client reflects on being pushed to produce results since childhood
0:22:14
Rita connects the client's current behavior with the coping mechanism from childhood
0:30:23
Allowing emotions and tears without suppressing them
0:32:42
Reflecting on what kindness to oneself would look like
0:38:30
Rita advises client to remember when she says unkind things to herself
We invite you to embrace the wisdom found in this episode and invite further enlightenment by listening to the full conversation. Discover more about the transformative journey that awaits by tuning into the "Stop Bending Over Podcast" for more episodes that promise to align your life for radical success.

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