#293 Generation Child Free Is No Kids the New Normal?

The Niall Boylan Podcast (They Told Me To Shut Up)

In this episode, Niall explores the growing trend of choosing a child-free life and asks, Is it a selfish decision, or simply a personal choice for happiness and freedom? The discussion is sparked by a listener whose daughter recently revealed she doesn't want to have children because they would "get in the way" of her life. The mother is disappointed and feels her daughter’s decision is selfish.

Some callers agree with the mother, believing that choosing not to have children for the sake of lifestyle convenience is selfish. They argue that parenthood is about making sacrifices and contributing to the next generation, which is part of life’s larger purpose. To them, family is a fundamental value, and rejecting the opportunity to have children can feel like dismissing a core aspect of life. They see this choice as prioritizing personal desires over the greater responsibility of nurturing the future.

Other callers strongly feel that the decision to be child-free is a deeply personal one, and labeling it selfish is unfair. For many, parenthood simply isn’t something they feel called to, and they believe it's better to acknowledge that than to have children out of obligation. In today’s fast-paced, demanding world, balancing a career, personal happiness, and family can be overwhelming. These callers argue that choosing to remain child-free allows individuals to live authentically and pursue what brings them fulfillment. It’s about carving out the life that feels right, rather than conforming to societal expectations.

Niall wraps up the episode by highlighting the deeply personal nature of this decision, noting that while family and legacy are important to some, others may find happiness in different ways. The child-free choice reflects a broader shift in societal values and expectations, leaving space for diverse perspectives on what it means to lead a fulfilling life.