22. Lessons to My 20-Something Self

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Hey, Bestie! We're going viral on IG again, plus I'm vibing off of a girl's night sleepover with 6 of my local besties!

A lot of the world still believes that after 35 you're an old hag and you can't get a man.

I call BS - which has inspired today's episode - lessons I'd give to my 20-something self. Warning - I cry a little bit on this one.

(1:11): Leave a review

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(2:55): Going viral and men being so triggered by women over 35

(4:46): Crossing paths with your person

My top 10 lessons:

1. Therpay is your bestie (5:28)
2. Your timeline, your rules (8:05)
3. Say 'bye, Felicia' to sh-tty men (I'll share a story about this time a man cheated on me when we were long distance and I found out when I was visiting him...and I didn't go home, phew, bestie, ughhhh (8:36)
4. Don't want kids? Freeze your eggs anyway (13:02)...this is where I cry, bestie
5. Change your mind whenever you want (13:45)
6. Stop people pleasing and doing things because you think it will make a man like you man. I also talk about my new gratitude journal - here's the Amazon link (I do earn commissions from this, just FYI) (18:32)
7. Red flags are for sports, and sports only (22:22)
8. Learn the truth behind manifestation and how to manage your energy (27:04)
9. Believe it to see it (31:04)
10. Keep your heart open (35:40)

I hope you enjoy this one, ILYSM.

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