Tumblr Advice Column: Where Did You Get Your Confidence?

Between Good & Evil with Charlotte D'Alessio

RECOMMENDED BOOK: Brave Not Perfect Written By Reshma SaujaniQuestion: How tf do you deal comparison? You’re surrounded by beautiful women in LA everyday, how do you not ever feel insecure?? I think I’m attractive and then I’m around one beautiful girl and I start comparing literally everything and I think I’m not pretty anymore and start thinking I should dye my hair like her, or talk like her, or wear the shoes she wears, it’s honestly so draining.Question: HOW TO STOP PUTTING PEOPLE & THINGS ON PEDESTALS?Question: Be honest Char cuz i can sense it, you hate hookup culture & have never involved yourself, correct?Question: what do you think is the most challenging part of being a model?Question: how can i build deeper connections with people? i feel like i never have something to say.Question: Where did you get your confidence?Question: I constantly find validation from guys and it’s up to the attention that I get from guys whether I feel confident or not. How do I stop being like this? Every time a guy stops talking to me i get super insecure and start to feel like I just wasn’t enough for them or start to compare myself to the girls that they talk to after me.Question: Any advice on how to stop holding yourself back? I know i havent really fully been living my life but ive been scared to risk the safety & peace i have in it.Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening or by using this link: https://bit.ly/BetweenGoodEvil_GeneralFollow Charlotte on:IG: @charlottedalessioTikTok: @charlottedalessioTo watch the Between Good and Evil podcast videos on YouTube: https://bit.ly/BtwnGandEYouTubeLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices