Informal Q&A: Micro-Cheating, Sibling Issues, Tone and Delivery, & more

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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Encore: Will Poulter, Dave Beran, and The Bear 52:22

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Season 3 of the smash hit FX/Hulu show “The Bear” roared to life just days ago, but Will Poulter (the actor who plays fan-favorite Luca) and 2014 F&W Best New Chef Dave Beran had been prepping for weeks. Poulter — like his co-star Jeremy Allen White — staged with Beran at his Santa Monica restaurant Pasjoli to learn how to accurately portray a professional chef onscreen. The lessons went so well, Beran says he’d hire Poulter as a cook — even despite a messy mishap with a pastry bag. The two dished all about getting kitchen culture right on and offscreen, what it takes to be at the top of your craft, and the pure magic of a great restaurant service. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices…

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An informal Q&A from my porch!

Married Men Flirting, What is Cheating?, Bad Relationships with a Family Member, Do I Need to Change My Tone?, Open Relationships, She’s Great and I Don’t Trust It, Dating Outside Your Circle

01:16 Married Men Flirting

01:38 Micro-Cheating

04:40 Bad Relationship with Sibling

06:07 Should I Change My Tone?

14:36 My Husband Has A Problem With My Tone

21:14 Gaslighting with Calm Tone

24:44 Open Relationships

26:25 I Don’t Know How to Express Myself

27:43 She’s Great. Is She Putting On An Act?

30:40 Can It Work with Someone Who Has More Than You?

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#Fitness #Society #Relationship #Religion #Mental Health #Taylor Chandler

Informal Q&A: Micro-Cheating, Sibling Issues, Tone and Delivery, & more

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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MP3•בית הפרקים

An informal Q&A from my porch!

Married Men Flirting, What is Cheating?, Bad Relationships with a Family Member, Do I Need to Change My Tone?, Open Relationships, She’s Great and I Don’t Trust It, Dating Outside Your Circle

01:16 Married Men Flirting

01:38 Micro-Cheating

04:40 Bad Relationship with Sibling

06:07 Should I Change My Tone?

14:36 My Husband Has A Problem With My Tone

21:14 Gaslighting with Calm Tone

24:44 Open Relationships

26:25 I Don’t Know How to Express Myself

27:43 She’s Great. Is She Putting On An Act?

30:40 Can It Work with Someone Who Has More Than You?

Thank you for your support!
Let's Work Together: Interest Form
Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/
Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler
YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

131 פרקים

#Fitness #Society #Relationship #Religion #Mental Health #Taylor Chandler

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Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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The Reasonable Person (Season Wrap-up!) 1:20:44

לפני 11 weeks1:20:44

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The Season 12 Finale! Let's bring everything from these past few months together. I planned on going over just a few notes to wrap the season, but I was in the zone and we got a lot more out of this. Discussing the importance of bringing humanity and decency back to relationship conversations, while also making clear distinctions between high-value behavior and low-value behavior and the outcomes that come with the respective mindsets. Few keywords for the episode: -Two types of people in the world: the responsible and the irresponsible -Importance of principle-driven behavior and decisions -Disliking Black People being unequal to calling out “bad behavior” -Eliminating dead weight from your life -Intro to my frameworks on individual and relational development (Phase 2) Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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Pro-Social vs. Anti-Social Culture & Values 1:42:26

לפני 13 weeks1:42:26

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We’ve had years of polarizing relationship content and we need to get clear on how to move forward. In this episode, we dive into the key differences between pro-social and anti-social people, exploring where these traits stem from—specifically the aspects of someone’s upbringing. We discuss the importance of aligning with pro-social individuals to foster positive change in relationships and families. References: https://www.statista.com/statistics/205097/percentage-of-poor-black-married-couple-families-in-the-us/#:~:text=U.S.%20poverty%20rate%20of%20Black%20married%2Dcouple%20families%201990%2D2023&text=In%202023%2C%206.5%20percent%20of,line%20in%20the%20United%20States. https://blackdemographics.com/ https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2024/10/marriage-and-divorce.html Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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Don't Go Too Far: The Danger of Radical Relationship Ideologies 55:11

לפני 14 weeks55:11

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Let me check myself, help you check yourself, and try to keep us balanced! In this episode, we're highlighting the issues of Radical Red Pill ideology, which is a response to problematic Radical Feminism ideology. Let's make an effort to stay sane, stay reasonable, see the value in both sides, and use critical thinking to make responsible decisions for ourselves and our relationships. Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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The (Whole) Inferior Man Episode 1:15:14

לפני 15 weeks1:15:14

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I think the whole episode is more interesting than just the Main Points! Here are the 5 Tips for Moving Forward with the Mission, 5 Markers of the Inferior Man, and everything else in between. Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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Moving Forward with the Mission - 5 Tips to Stay Focused 16:53

לפני 15 weeks16:53

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This short episode is part of a longer episode (about 1 hour). I edited this down to my first 5 tips to help us stay focused as we move forward with this work. Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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The Industrious Woman - Rebalance for Relationship 27:34

לפני 16 weeks27:34

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Western culture has emphasized work and de-valued relationships. The impact on women is significant. Women who want marriage and family are over-burdened and under-prepared for what relationships take to thrive. Let's talk about the issues. If you want solutions, join us at workshop Saturday, Feb. 22nd 2025: Industrious Woman Workshop: Register Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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The Inferior Man - 5 Main Points 21:51

לפני 16 weeks21:51

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This season is about making clear distinctions between who is who. Who can progress forward with us and who is going in a different direction. Here are 5 Markers of the Inferior Man Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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Last Call for Women! PART 2: Social & Cultural Issues 1:09:53

לפני 18 weeks1:09:53

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Last Call for Women! Examining social and cultural issues preventing women from getting the relationships they want. We're talking about the breakdown of the nuclear family, the echo chamber reinforcing faulty thinking, rejecting accountability, and cult-like thinking. The Industrious Woman Workshop - Saturday, February 22, 2025 from 11 AM - 1 PM EST Register: https://TaylorChandler.as.me/?appointmentType=73712513 Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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Last Call for Women: Marriage, Divorce, Body, Attitude 1:08:29

לפני 19 weeks1:08:29

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-Overview of Marriage and Divorce Stats -Making sense of the Numbers -Why Black Women's Numbers Look Different From Everyone Else? -Body and Attitude Factors References: https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity https://blogs.cdc.gov/nchs/2024/03/15/7567/ https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2024/10/marriage-and-divorce.html https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4850739/#T1 Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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For the Love of Money 54:17

לפני 20 weeks54:17

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Prioritizing Money over godly principles has put relationships in chaos - disordered and dysfunctional. Finances are seen as the root of stability rather than a solid family structure. Let’s discuss the spiritual issue of disordered relationships with money and how it impacts people, specifically women. Let’s work together: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/teluZNqP Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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4 Ways to Lead Your Relationship Better 1:01:16

לפני 21 weeks1:01:16

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Distinguish between Leading vs. Controlling vs. Condescending 4 Points about Leadership 4 Ways to Make Leadership Better Interested in working together 1-on-1: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/teluZNqP Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamtaylorchandler/ Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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2025 Promises to BREAK 1:00:19

לפני 22 weeks1:00:19

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Instead of New Promises in the New Year, I’m challenging you to BREAK old ones. Happy 2025! SUBSCRIBE TO YOUTUBE Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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A Woman's Dilemma: Conflicts Women Face in the Pursuit of Relationships 25:20

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For women facing tough internal conflicts and for men who seek to understand women better. 01:50:00 Be Present 03:10:00 Balance Desire and Good Stewardship 03:42:00 Missed Opportunity 06:48:00 Continuous Progress 07:43:00 Michelle’s Review 09:05:00 Investing in Yourself is Attractive 11:44:00 What do I pray for? 16:41:00 Men & Your Accomplishments 21:13:00 Do I work on this or wait for better? 23:03:00 When the honeymoon ends Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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Informal Q&A: Micro-Cheating, Sibling Issues, Tone and Delivery, & more 36:15

לפני 34 weeks36:15

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An informal Q&A from my porch! Married Men Flirting, What is Cheating?, Bad Relationships with a Family Member, Do I Need to Change My Tone?, Open Relationships, She’s Great and I Don’t Trust It, Dating Outside Your Circle 01:16 Married Men Flirting 01:38 Micro-Cheating 04:40 Bad Relationship with Sibling 06:07 Should I Change My Tone? 14:36 My Husband Has A Problem With My Tone 21:14 Gaslighting with Calm Tone 24:44 Open Relationships 26:25 I Don’t Know How to Express Myself 27:43 She’s Great. Is She Putting On An Act? 30:40 Can It Work with Someone Who Has More Than You? Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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Invite: Attachment Workshop 14:53

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Giving you tools you can begin using ASAP at The Attachment Workshop! Listen in to some questions sent in on Instagram Live. Workshop is Sunday, Oct. 13 at 11 AM EST or Monday, Oct. 14 @ 6 PM EST. You choose your day! 2 hour workshop for $15 (10% the price of a 1-on-1 session) Click here to Register Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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BAD MATCH: 8 Points About the Anxious-Avoidant Couple 29:51

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One of the most common pairs - the Anxious-Avoidant Couple. Here are 8 Points for you to work on if this has been your pattern in dating. If you are currently in this type of relationship, you will hear things you can your partner can work on together… with a therapist! 03:33 Anxious-Avoidant Pairing 05:03 I Was Anxious, Then Avoidant, Then Secure 07:32 Couple-Work 09:16 Boundaries 15:21 Attunememt 17:43 Distance 19:19 The End of Negotiations 22:26 Make Believe 23:34 All That Time Wasted 26:27 Trauma Histories 27:17 Cycles 28:12 Halt - Get Help Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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5 Questions to Ask BEFORE Date 3 47:57

לפני 37 weeks47:57

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For single people who want to vet better! Ask THESE 5 questions to get a better idea of who you're dealing with and if they're worth your time. 5 Questions you NEED to Ask Before Date 3 05:51 Social Media is a circus 08:18 “I’d Rather Be Single” 18:21 What Are You Looking For? 20:15 Hedging Your Bet 24:52 Do You Want Kids? 31:04 First Class vs. Economy Dating 36:00 “I Want Kids, but Only with the Right Person” 37:36 When Did Your Last Relationship End? 40:51 How Did Your Last Relationship End? 46:11 What Has Your Experience Been of Me So Far? Pop the Balloon show: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=USOQid7YJ2s Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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Q&A Pt. 3: Can Women and Men Be Friends? and More 1:06:49

לפני 46 weeks1:06:49

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Can Women and Men *really* be friends? Should you even have opposite-gender friends if you’re in a romantic relationship? 04:37 Will I do paid matchmaking? 07:02 Free Coaching and Free Therapy - Sessions will be made public (https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/pLCXjOMz) 08:46 Can women be friends with men? 17:13 Context, Nuance, and Rigidity 20:13 Context of Male Friendships 24:44 How I Think Women Should Handle Male Friends 33:17 Picking Up New Opposite-Gender Friends 41:23 You Look Like a Mark 42:38 Have a Conversation with Your Significant Other 58:24 “My baby mama hates me and I deserve it. How do I create a better co-parent situation?” 1:01:28 “What dod you do when you acknowledge your bad behaviors and still commit to the relationship, but the victim is not being graceful or is having a hard time forgiving?” Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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Q&A Pt. 2 - Show Up Better, Negativity, and STDs 34:58

לפני 48 weeks34:58

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The last 5 questions from my Live Q&A 00:38 Communication Skills 06:30 “Should I date someone I’m not physically attracted to?” 10:10 Look Better 15:16 How does Taylor deal with negativity online? 18:38 How to deal with the condescending nature of the question “Who Hurt You?” 21:37 Navigating STI/STD conversations in dating? Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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Q&A Part 1 - Be Serious! 34:28

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Be sure to follow on Instagram @iamtaylorchandler to participate LIVE and submit questions! How to stay hopeful and optimistic while dating? Social Media Detox Get clear on your Values and what you want Being a Serious Person when Dating Physical Appearance - Show up Ready Serious Communication Know your Strengths and Weaknesses “I keep giving grace and they don’t give grace in return” “How much time to spend before commitment?” “How do I deal with a breakup?” Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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Vulnerability & Attachment in Dating 27:16

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Manage the conflict between wanting a relationship while having fear of becoming too attached, or attached to the wrong person! At the end of the episode I give you 4 things you may want to consider when determining if the person you’re dating is worth the investment. 04:27 What does it mean to become “Attached”? 06:00 Your Attitude About Attachment 09:00 Fear of Becoming Dependent / Losing Yourself 09:41 Interdependency 10:57 Willing and Open 13:46 Comment: “Vulnerability and Attachment is seen as weakness” 18:21 “I will stay single forever” 21:10 When Attachment really IS Weak 22:08 Good and Bad Managers 24:00 Do it Anyway and Do it Responsibly Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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Attachment Review 1:11:21

לפני 51 weeks1:11:21

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Let's Review! Attachment is a Major Key for Better Relationships Your Attachment Style helps you understand how you relate to others, what your triggers and blindspots are (and why), and gives you a map to what you Need to feel safe and happy. Everyone has either an Insecure style or a Secure style. Insecure Attachers struggle with maintaining healthy relationships due to excessive anxiety and/or avoidance. The goal is to Shift to Secure attachment where you can have solid, lasting relationships. First and foremost, your relationship with yourself will improve as you get a better grasp on your emotions and thoughts. Then, you’re able to engage with others in new, healthier ways. Pioneers of Attachment Theory: Mary Ainsworth and John Bowlby Volume 1 of Bowlby’s Attachment Trilogy: https://www.amazon.com/Attachment-Loss-Vol-John-Bowlby/dp/0712674713 Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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Women who Are Abstinent and Dating 39:52

לפני 1 year39:52

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I see a clear rise in the number of women who say they are abstaining from physical intimacy. This can make dating difficult. I understand this personally! It makes it even MORE difficult when you’re not really being honest with yourself and/or others about WHY you’re abstaining. Here are some things to consider if you are dating while abstaining, and hopefully it is also helps men understand what questions to ask, where women are coming from in general, and how to navigate the conversation better Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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5 Ways to Reciprocate in Relationship 1:22:59

לפני 1 year1:22:59

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Most people dating seem to be WAY more concerned with what they’re getting rather than what they can give! Everyone is in relationships to fulfill some kind of personal goal but it becomes selfish and toxic when you lose sight of how you can support and nourish the one you’re with. Today we’re talking about GIVING and RECIPROCATION. I’m highlighting 5 ways YOU can reciprocate in a relationship so you can check how well you’re doing with things you can directly control TODAY. References: Obesity data: https://www.cdc.gov/obesity/data/adult.html https://minorityhealth.hhs.gov/obesity-and-african-americans#:~:text=How%20Does%20Obesity%20Affect%20African,women%20are%20overweight%20or%20obese. Infertility: https://www.nichd.nih.gov/health/topics/infertility/conditioninfo/common#:~:text=About%209%25%20of%20men%20and,States%20have%20experienced%20fertility%20problems.&text=In%20one%2Dthird%20of%20infertile,problem%20is%20with%20the%20man. Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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Manipulation Tactics: How to Spot Them and What to Do About It 1:19:45

לפני 1 year1:19:45

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Manipulation Tactics - How to Spot Them and What to Do About It What is DARVO? DENY ATTACK REVERSE Effects of DARVO Resist DARVO References: https://www.choosingtherapy.com/darvo/ https://bayareacbtcenter.com/reverse-darvo-for-combating-gaslighting-and-emotional-abuse/#:~:text=What%20Is%20DARVO%3F,the%20blame%20onto%20their%20victims. Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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I Don't Need A Man, Emotional Availability, and Soul Ties 1:23:04

לפני 1 year1:23:04

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This episode is a conglomerate of a few topics! -There’s a difference between wanting a relationship and being Ready for a relationship. Your emotional availability makes all the difference. -Many women can function well on their own, but still don’t have the relationship they really want. Let’s talk about some of the things that need to change in order to set yourself up for the man you’re looking for. -Men can be giving out way too much of themselves to others in an effort to be helpful and provide. However, this leaves him drained and unavailable for the woman he really wants. Listen in on what he can do about that. -While you’re single, how can you spend time most effectively? -In order to have space for a new person, you’ve got to get rid of the old. Let’s talk about letting go, forgiveness, and those tricky ‘soul ties’ that may be holding you back. Let’s work together 1-on-1: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/teluZNqP Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

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5 Reasons You're Angry at Your Parents 23:57

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When you become aware of how your childhood has impacted your adulthood, angry feelings arise towards your parents. You realize your anxiety or your avoidance is directly related to how you have experienced your mother and father. It’s common to have conflicted feelings. You may struggle with loving them and resenting them. Having empathy for their experiences and feeling the pain of how their experiences have negatively affected the way they related to you. Or you may be less conflicted and more enraged. You want them to feel what you feel. Or you might be less enraged and more disconnected. The anger became too exhausting. Regardless of where you are now, I hope this episode gives language and validity to the anger associated with having parents who did not parent you in a way that gave you that you needed emotionally. **At around minute 15:00 I should have included the BOOMERS with Gen X'ers 1-on-1 Interest Form - CLICK HERE Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

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Role vs. Relationship 15:22

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We experience frustration and pain when the position someone has in our life does not match our experience of them. For example - You can have a mother who you do not experience as mothering. A father who does not treat you like a son or daughter. A spouse who treats you like a stranger. _ One of the goals of this video is to help you make a distinction between Role and Relationship so that you are better able to locate where your negative emotions are likely coming from. I will also give you l ideas about how to resolve this problem! Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler

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Dating & Relationship Q&A 1:36:59

לפני 1 year1:36:59

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Q&A from Dec 2023 about dating and relationship topics: Including - Serious Dating What does it meant to be “Exclusive” Passport bros How to soften your communication “What do you bring to the table?” Toxic friends Effort in dating Defensiveness Vetting Why people lie Relationship goals Casual physical intimacy * Let’s work together (1-on-1): https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/teluZNqP Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

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Attachment Wounds 26:46

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Attachment Wounds are the experiences that serve as catalysts for Insecure Attachment. I’m going to define specific Attachment Wounds, describe the effect of those wounds, and point you in the direction you need to go in to heal these wounds. If you don't, these wounds bleed out into your present relationships (whether platonic or romantic, but especially romantic) and negatively effect your chances of having a healthy, happy connection. KEY WORDS: emotional intelligence, emotional maturity, rejection, abandonment, relationship trauma, projection, insecure attachment, secure attachment, emotional needs Let’s work together (1-on-1): https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/teluZNqP Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

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How Attachment Develops 24:52

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Your Attachment Style begins developing at a young age and is able to be defined by age 5! In this video I’m going to go over 4 big areas of Attachment Development 1. Attachment Bases 2. Concepts of Self and Other 3. Programming 4. Intervention 01:06 Overview 06:23 Self-Concept 8:56 Other-Concept / Exploration 12:54 Survival 18:29 Programming 22:05 Intervention Let’s work together (1-on-1): https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/teluZNqP Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

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Situationship Solutions feat. Tiana 30:16

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Tiana is basically an Attachment Expert at this point! She’s done all the workshops and the Reattach Coaching Program. She has a lot of insight and wisdom for you about situationships, self-esteem, and overall guidance about what you can expect on your journey of self-improvement and healing. I’m grateful for her time and I know you’re going to get a lot of out of this conversation! Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

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Growing Fruits of the Spirit feat. Rafer Owens 40:46

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Rafer is a husband, father, and pastor in New Mexico who struggled with Anger and Anxiety - until he did his Work! Listen in as he shares about his desire to live like Jesus, coming to terms with the fact he was not, and doing the necessary steps to change. Reattach Fast Track Beginning August 28th 1-on-1 Interest Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

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The Reality of the Anxious-Avoidant Match 1:19:12

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Season 9 Finale! Let's go into the reality of this all-too-common and always-stressful paring: the Anxious-Preoccupied and the Dismissive-Avoidant I'll define the terms, break down what most people THINK this pairing is and what it ACTUALLY is, and I'll share what I think you should do about it! See you in season 10 :) Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

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Big Pivot feat. Ashley 36:21

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Ashley completed 1-on-1s and the Reattach Coaching Program! One of the many things I love about Ashley and this episode is that her trigger into healing her codependency occurred with a platonic friend. Many others (including me!) have experienced this with friends and it's awesome to hear someone talking openly about it, since most of the time we're referring to romantic partners. Listen to her talk about the "DREAD" she felt in this relationship and how she learned a framework for letting go that she is able to use in day-to-day life. Ashley has embraced the warm parts of her but has put boundaries in place to protect those same parts. She can be herself while not being taking advantage of or feeling resentful towards others. Success! I hope you enjoy the episode. If you want to do what she did, join us in Reattach! Reattach Coaching Program Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

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Q&A: Emotional Availability, Love Addiction, & Forgiving and more 1:20:19

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We love a Q&A! I'm helping you with... Shifting from Anxious to Secure Attachment Healing Love Addiction What to do with someone who switches up on you Understanding Stonewalls Reconnecting How to deal with people who keep reminding you of your mistakes Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

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Emotional Safety Pt. 3: Showing Up Safe 34:13

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10 ways to show up as more Emotionally Safe for Better Outcomes! You’re going to want your notepad out for this one. The unedited version of this podcast is double the time and had me cracking up, so if you want to join us for Live Recordings, join us on Patreon! $5 / month tier It’s also a great way to give back to the podcast on the low and on the regular… if you’re regularly getting better because of it! Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

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Date Better feat. Dating Coach @AlignWithAlison 33:15

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My favorite dating coach has finally graced the podcast! Alison - @alignwithalison - is giving you her best tips on: Putting yourself out there Believing what people tell you What kinds of questions to ask Potential Matches What to do with the Submission word Do "the butterflies" matter? Follow her on IG here: @alignwithalison and check her services out! Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

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Emotional Safety Pt. 2: Re-establish Trust & Confidence 31:31

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Trust is on the GROUND FLOOR of healthy relationships! When the foundation is weak, everything else falls apart. Here's some insight into what to do about ONGOING relationships that have experienced attachment wounds / broken trust. How to break from Denial and Clear Confusion The Hyper-independence to Co-dependence Spectrum The importance of Interdependence Patreon - Live Q&A re: Emotional Safety on Sunday 3/26 at 6 PM EST Boundary Playbook Reattach Coaching Program Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

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Attachment Nuggets feat. Alexandria 57:57

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I worked with Alexandria 1-on-1 and in the Reattach Coaching Group. Then, she came to the Reattach Retreat in Atlanta - December 2022. Now, she is serving on the Reattach Team, helping others through the Reattach Program ( IT'S BACK Y'ALL! ) and planning the Reattach 2023 Retreat ! This is what Healing sounds like :) Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

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Emotional Safety Pt. 1: Barriers to Vulnerability 40:17

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Emotional Safety is a 3-part series recorded Live on Zoom, available for Reattachers on Patreon! You can join us - click here. -What is an Emotionally Safe person? -What happens when Attachment Wounds aren’t attended to? -Understand Insecure Attachment through the lens of crying babies -The link between the Past and Present -How you can start breaking Barriers to Vulnerability down The Video Replays are available on Patreon for 30 days, so if you join late, you can still get access to the videos. Reattach is back! Read more about it here and join the Waitlist. Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

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HAW Pt. 3: Attachment, Over-functioning, & Anxiety 26:15

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The final part in the series! -The undercover reason you pair with under-developed people -The role of anxiety -What your parent has to do with it 2-Hour Live Workshop on Zoom - Sat. March 25 ($25) Replay available for attendees Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

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HAW Pt. 2: 10 Points for Emotional & Relational Intelligence 38:01

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Sometimes a Bridge doesn't need to be Demolished, it needs to be Re-Designed! Women who thrive leading, planning, directing, and creating can have issues in the areas most important to building healthy intimate relationships. This episode gives 10 points to focus on to help Design better relationships. The High Achieving Women Workshop is 2 hours on March 25, 2023 from 10:30-11:30 AM Replay will be available. Info and Registration on site iamtaylorchandler.com Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

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High Achieving Women Pt. 1: Prep for Partner 52:45

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Happy Women’s Month! The High Achieving Women coaching group is a 3-day group for women who want to: …increase satisfaction in personal relationships to complement your professional success …stop dating projects or assignments. Date date healthy. Reciprocal. And understand the types that works WELL for you. …manage the difference between your Norm and society’s norm …understand the role of anxiety & perfectionism in your life and how to relax these things without lowering your standards so you and others around you will be more comfortable and energized! Friday March 22nd - Sunday March 24, 2023 General : 6-8 PM EST VIP: Additional 8-9 PM EST on Sunday the 24th with additional material and Q&A. Written supplemental material that will guide you through the general content is also included with VIP. General - $150 VIP - $210 Register Here Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

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Strategic Security: Map the way to Secure Attachment 1:02:23

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Healing Insecure Attachment can be messy, so I’m laying out the major keys you need to unlock the way forward. Breaking down “hard” skills of: identifying your attachment, managing triggers, expressing emotional needs, and setting boundaries Plus “soft” skills of: communicating with empathy, and the discipline of forgiveness and acceptance I released this episode on Wednesday rather than the normal Thursday because I have a Live Masterclass tonight! If you want to be there, purchase the Boundary Playbook and I’ll email you the Zoom link. You will have access to the Replay as long as you Register for class. All other Resources mentioned are in the Resource Store Thank you for your support! Let's Work Together: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler…

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