People Pleasing, Selfishness, Pasalubong Culture

Filipino Millennial Mindset

Episode 30. Filipinos tend to be people pleasers. Most avoid confrontation and don't like letting other people down. Filipinos refrain from asking questions or NOT seek clarification on certain instructions out of politeness, even if they don't fully understand everything. This is what mostly leads to mistake. Our desire to "please" will be our own downfall.

⏰Timestamps:⏰

(0:00) Intro

(0:55) True mental health VS self-inflicted mental health issues

(10:53) The connection between people pleasing and mental health

(15:50) Two classes of People Pleasing

(18:56) Pleasing other people and forgetting about your own family

(22:04) Sobrang against ang Filipino Culture sa idea ng pagiging selfish

(23:56) Helping or giving sometimes can be for yourself & it's a good thing

(27:35) Mga tao na hinahanap ang worth nila sa iba

(37:09) Kids being obligated to take care of parents

(40:47) Connection between selfishness and people pleasing

(47:44) Pinoy Culture: Umaasa sa taong umangat imbes ma-inspire na umangat din

(50:31) Ninonormalize ng Philippine Television ang kultura na hindi maganda

(55:06) Filipino Pasalubong Culture

(59:44) "Porke nag abroad mayaman na"

Relax & listen. Hindi natin kailangan maging lasing para magkaron ng seryosong usapan!

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