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Your Worth Isn't Measured by What You Do for Others
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תוכן מסופק על ידי Lena Servin and Noel Factor, Lena Servin, and Noel Factor. כל תוכן הפודקאסטים כולל פרקים, גרפיקה ותיאורי פודקאסטים מועלים ומסופקים ישירות על ידי Lena Servin and Noel Factor, Lena Servin, and Noel Factor או שותף פלטפורמת הפודקאסט שלהם. אם אתה מאמין שמישהו משתמש ביצירה שלך המוגנת בזכויות יוצרים ללא רשותך, אתה יכול לעקוב אחר התהליך המתואר כאן https://he.player.fm/legal.
Ever noticed how we're quick to call self-care "indulgent" but consider self-sacrifice "noble"? Something's deeply wrong with that equation, and it's exactly what we're tackling in this raw, honest conversation about why self-love isn't just nice—it's necessary for survival.
Most of us were raised with messages that our worth is tied to what we do for others. We were praised for being the helpers, the fixers, the ones who would "give the shirt off our backs." This conditioning runs deep, often starting in childhood when we learn that love is something to be earned through performance and people-pleasing. As Noel shares his experience of buying throw pillows just because they brought him joy, we explore how even small acts of self-nurturing can feel revolutionary when you've spent your life believing your value comes from serving others.
The truth is that loving yourself isn't selfish—it's one of the most selfless things you can do. When you're not overextended, resentful, and depleted, you become more emotionally available to others. You show up more authentically in relationships because you're not constantly performing. We dig into the psychology behind self-abandonment, offering practical questions to help you identify where you might be outsourcing your worth and how to reclaim it.
What would change if you truly believed you were lovable without having to earn it? In a culture that profits from self-doubt, choosing to love yourself is truly an act of rebellion. Join us as we lovingly get uncomfortable and challenge the notion that we must heal before we're worthy of our own love. Perhaps self-love isn't the reward for healing—it's the fuel that makes healing possible in the first place.
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1. Welcome and Introduction (00:00:00)
2. Self-Love Isn't Selfish (00:03:20)
3. Breaking the People-Pleasing Pattern (00:07:15)
4. Small Acts of Self-Love (00:15:20)
5. The Psychology of Self-Abandonment (00:24:55)
6. Questions for Self-Reflection (00:32:14)
7. Closing Thoughts (00:35:06)
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