The burden of being an INFJ (feat. Joyce Meng)

Literally No Subtext with Dear Kristin

Joyce's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCarmrOHgveKHsaV6QejAZVw
Book a Typing Session with Joyce: https://www.joycemengcoaching.com/

⌛ T I M E S T A M P S :

5:40 What motivates you to keep producing MBTI content?

11:42 What are the xNFJ values?

14:38 How would you describe yourself?

15:18 Why do INFJs seem to “hold back” their true selves in conversation?

16:24 What can INFJs learn from Fi users?

17:02 This is the best word to describe an INFJ.

19:19 How do you define yourself? Does that shape your identity? We discuss INFJ insight and foresight, which then leads into a conversation about how trauma shapes us.

30:23 How does an INFJ experience their Ni as opposed to an INTJ?

33:44 A distinction between Fi and Fe

34:59 Can you give us an example of using your Introverted Intuition (Ni) on a day-to-day basis?

38:58 Realising that people aren’t as deep as you think they are.

40:06 Were you ever confused as to whether you were an INFP or INFJ? If so, how did you realise you were an INFJ?

43:39 Is it insolence if I tell people what their MBTI type is even if they get bothered by it?

45:40 Do you think we can consciously develop our 5th to 8th functions?

52:46 Do very easy tasks stress you out?

53:17 What’s something you dislike admitting to be wrong about?

53:34 Which types do you tend to best get along with?

55:17 What don’t you understand about ESFPs?

58:40 What are some INFJ stereotypes that you relate to and are there some that you’ve never personally experienced?

1:01:34 Do you like being the unpaid therapist?

1:03:18 How do you deal with being overstimulated by sensory experiences?

1:05:01 Can an INFJ become like an ESTP?

1:07:50 Why do INFJs have a martyr complex?

1:08:28 What types are you the most attracted to romantically and why?

1:12:14 Why do INFJs have poor Se in terms of body/action, but good Se in terms of style?

1:14:48 Ni doms don’t seem to experience anxiety issues. Is there a reason?

1:16:14 What’s the easiest tell between an INFJ and an ISFJ?

1:19:12 Be honest, do you have a superiority complex?

1:20:54 What is something about MBTI that you think a lot of people gloss over?

1:23:39 Could you tell us a little bit about the book you’re writing?

1:25:33 What is one thing you’ve learned about yourself in writing this book?

1:26:34 What is your pitch for Enneagram? Is it worth looking into for people who haven’t?

1:30:15 If you could choose one thing to tell the MBTI community about INFJs, what would it be?