61: When Your Soulmate Becomes Your Ex

Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram

In this episode, I talk about the 10 soulmates we may encounter over the span of our lives. Thanks for being patient with me this week on this episode. Promise to do better!
Here are the 10 types of soulmates.
The Stranger Soul Mate - unrequited love is still love. We needed them, we loved them, we were certain we were destined to marry them and they barely remember our last name.
The black hole Soul Mate - the person that we lost ourselves and our sensibilities to (usually our first requited soul mate experience)
The Almost doesn’t count Soul Mate - the person who checked all the boxes but couldn’t light your fire (or vice versa)
The Only If They… Soul Mate
The Stay with you Forever but Stay Away From Me Forever Soul Mate - the person you’ll never truly be over even though it’s definitely over
The one that got away - the good guy/ girl who you blew it with and now they’re happy with someone else
The Rip Tide Soulmate - the relationship that preys on your needs, insecurities, weakness’ and fears.
The prototype Soulmate - the person you are so sure is your one but upon further inspection you realize is just a beautiful imposter who taught you what you really needed to know about what you need out of love
The Muse Soulmate - the person who’s meant to teach you about love/ connection, but not give it to you (usually a crush you never get a shot with)
The Love of my Life soulmate- the relationship that allows you to be your best self and love at a higher frequency. A love marked by self insight, happiness, individual growth and true mutuality.
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