The Power of Now: Breaking Free from the Past and Taking Action in the Present

Mental Health & Addiction Podcast: Mind Matters by Gordon Bruin

The Power of Now—Breaking Free from the Past

Episode Theme:
How to stop being a hostage to your past and take action in the present moment.

Key Takeaways

The Present is All We Have:
The most vital question we can ask is, “What do I need to do right now?” Dwelling on the past keeps us stuck; only this moment matters.

Hostage to the Past:
Our brains are wired for survival by avoiding pain. Traumatic or negative experiences leave scars that can keep us frozen, reliving old wounds.

Science Behind Stuckness:
Referencing The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk, trauma literally imprints itself on our minds and bodies through neuroplasticity and persistent memories.

Mindfulness as Healing:
Constant mindfulness practice—reminding ourselves “that was then, this is now”—is essential for breaking free from old patterns.

Facing Fear Head-On (Exposure Therapy):
Whatever you fear, confront it directly. Whether it's public speaking or learning to drive, progress comes by taking small steps into discomfort.

Action Steps
Identify What’s Holding You Back:
Ask yourself: What am I afraid of? What’s keeping me stuck?
Write down what bothers you most—the elephant in your living room.
Face Your Fears Directly:
Confront whatever holds you back instead of waiting for a perfect moment.
Take Small Actions:
Don’t wait for change; create it with one decisive step today.
Use Your Agency & Choice:
Remember—you have power over your actions and responses right now!
Thought Starter

“If you're waiting for the perfect moment—it doesn't exist. Create it.”

What will you choose to face today?

Referenced Book:
The Body Keeps the Score – Bessel van der Kolk

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