#106 - Why Smart, Creative People Avoid Coaching — and Why They Shouldn’t

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I’ve noticed that many smart, creative people avoid coaching because they think it’s only for people who are lost, unsure or corporate CEO's. In this episode of Pattern Shift, I challenge that idea. I share my own stories as both a coach and a client, from working with ADHD and lifestyle coaches on my weightloss journey to helping my clients rediscover joy in their creative work.

With humor, honesty, and a healthy dose of Dutch pragmatism, I explain how coaching differs from consulting, mentoring, and therapy—and why it’s such a powerful way to find clarity when you’re ready to grow. I also talk about how our cultural tendency to “doe maar normaal” can make asking for support feel uncomfortable, even when it’s exactly what we need.

If you’ve ever thought coaching wasn’t “for you,” this episode might shift your perspective.

 You know me as a guide, mentor and teacher, but I've also set off on a new adventure, coaching. Coaching gets a bad rep sometimes, but when it's done right, it can be really transformational. As part of my coaching education, I'll soon need to do real coaching sessions. And it could be a really great opportunity for you to experience it at no or low cost. If you've ever been curious about working with me in this way, now's the time. Just send me an email: [email protected]

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פרקים

1. Welcome And Why YouTube (00:00:00)

2. Tech Glitch And Mindset Reset (00:00:55)

3. What Coaching Is And Isn’t (00:02:37)

4. Client Story: From Content To Creation (00:05:23)

5. My Coaching Team And Lessons Learned (00:08:45)

6. Training With Wayfinder And Finding Tools (00:14:21)

7. The Dutch View On Coaching (00:17:22)

8. Coaching vs Consulting, Mentoring, Teaching, Therapy (00:19:43)

9. Restoring vs Enhancing Function (00:24:09)

10. Present And Future Focus In Coaching (00:26:15)

11. Who I Coach And How We Work (00:27:52)

12. Accreditation, Ethics, And Accessibility (00:31:05)

13. Invitation, Rates, And Free Session (00:33:08)

14. Closing And Next Time (00:34:10)