[Publisher account suspended] 79 Find Love, Bend Time, and the Courage to Explore with James Kyson

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[Publisher needs to add a card at awesound.com/payments] I knew something inside me was guiding me…

I need to go out and explore the world…

I needed to find the true James…

While many of us follow in our parents’ footsteps…

Joining the firm… Picking up that stethoscope… Or the family business…

Ever felt like something inside you is itching, burning, trying to get out?

James Kyson from Heros calls it a super power…

And when we’re really tapped into them… They’ll pull and push you…

To take the Big Leap…

And show you how to Play this game called life…

On this intimate talk with James Kyson… 2 huge points hit home hard…

Being first and being timeless…

I was curious to learn about James’ negotiation strategy for his parents…

You know… Before he bought a 1-way ticket to LA from New York to become an actor…

“I always knew that I was going to be the first in my lineage…

… Rather than the second in my parents’ lineage.”

He basically told his family that I have to do this…

Because I have to learn about me and my place in it…

He’s getting clarity there… But it’s all a part of the process.

He goes deeper into this process on our talk… Like finding the courage to make that first step…

The struggles… The risks… And sleeping in his rental car… But first…

How much time do you have left on your break?

What about in the day? Or the week?

We’re really infatuated with this man-made measurement tool…

And it consumes most of us entirely…

Here’s what I mean…

When you’re asked how are things going today… Or at work…

Or within the business… Or at the office…

Or on the set… Or at home…

Wherever whatever… When we’re asked how’s it going…

Do you default to something like…

A) Really, really busy, but good…

B) Oh, it’s good… We’re super busy, but that’s good…

C) It’s fucking crazy!!!

D) Yeah… It’s our busy season right now…

We feel like C… But default to say A,B, or D.

Have you seen it?

Is it under the seat cushion?

Did it fall in the trash can?

Where did the time go?

When you say I’m busy doing this… Or this… And that…

That’s constraining how much you can do…

It’s squeezing… Putting on the universal pressure…

And limiting what you can accomplish in any timeframe.

You know how when you’re doing something you love…

And 4 or 5 hours seem like 20 minutes of fun…

What if you could make 20 minutes turn into 4 or 5 hours of work?

Outside of being abducted by aliens…

How do you become a timeless being?

Besides going deeper into becoming the first in your lineage… And how to find more time…

James shares something personal that he only shares with his close friends…

Enjoy the talk and be sure to connect with James and his wife Jamee at:

JamesAndJamee.com

On Instagram & On Twitter

Until next time…

Your Partner in Timeless Creative Success

Tanner

Tanner Gers is a writer, advocate and, Champion of Change. Find his self-help podcast on iTunes and his written musings at TannerGers.com

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