021: How Perfectionism Leads to Procrastination & Strategies to Navigate the Discomfort of Starting Tasks

From Stuck to Started: Executive Function & ADHD Coaching to Take Action

From Stuck to Started: Executive Function & ADHD Coaching to Take Action

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Threshold

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לפני 8 ימיםלפני 8d ago

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Threshold is a Peabody Award-winning documentary podcast about our place in the natural world. Each season, we take listeners on a journey into the heart of a complex environmental story, asking how we got here and where we might be headed. In our latest season, Hark, we hand the mic over to our planet-mates and investigate what it means to truly listen to nonhuman voices—and the cost if we don't. With mounting social and ecological crises, what happens when we tune into the life all around us? Threshold is nonprofit, listener-supported, and independently produced.

לפני 21 ימים 16:55

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What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

✅ The hidden connection between perfectionism, ADHD, and procrastination

✅ Why avoiding discomfort keeps you stuck in task paralysis

✅ How to reframe discomfort as part of growth, not something to fear

✅ The difference between being stuck vs. procrastinating (and why it matters!)

✅ A mindset shift that makes starting tasks easier and less overwhelming

Host: Sarah Lovell, Executive Function & ADHD Coach

Resources Mentioned:

Connect with Sarah Lovell:

Website: Executive Functioning First
Email: sarah@executivefunctioningfirst.com
Instagram: @executivefunctioningfirst

Music by: AudioCoffee, Inspirational Background

24 פרקים

#Fitness #Self-Improvement #Mental Health #Podcasting Education #Sarah Lovell - Executive Function & ADHD Coach #ADHD Coach #Sarah Lovell - Executive Function #Executive Function

From Stuck to Started: Executive Function & ADHD Coaching to Take Action

021: How Perfectionism Leads to Procrastination & Strategies to Navigate the Discomfort of Starting Tasks

From Stuck to Started: Executive Function & ADHD Coaching to Take Action

published לפני 21 ימים

שתפו

MP3•בית הפרקים

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

✅ The hidden connection between perfectionism, ADHD, and procrastination

✅ Why avoiding discomfort keeps you stuck in task paralysis

✅ How to reframe discomfort as part of growth, not something to fear

✅ The difference between being stuck vs. procrastinating (and why it matters!)

✅ A mindset shift that makes starting tasks easier and less overwhelming

Host: Sarah Lovell, Executive Function & ADHD Coach

Resources Mentioned:

Connect with Sarah Lovell:

Website: Executive Functioning First
Email: sarah@executivefunctioningfirst.com
Instagram: @executivefunctioningfirst

Music by: AudioCoffee, Inspirational Background

24 פרקים

#Fitness #Self-Improvement #Mental Health #Podcasting Education #Sarah Lovell - Executive Function & ADHD Coach #ADHD Coach #Sarah Lovell - Executive Function #Executive Function

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From Stuck to Started: Executive Function & ADHD Coaching to Take Action

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023: How to pick the right strategies to navigate perfectionism, executive dysfunction, and ADHD paralysis 16:24

לפני 7 ימים16:24

16:24

Have you ever spent hours researching the perfect planner, rewriting an email 10 times before hitting send, or waiting for the right time to start a project? You might think it’s perfectionism , but what if it’s actually executive dysfunction ? In this episode, I break down how perfectionism and executive dysfunction overlap , why both can keep you stuck, and how to recognize what’s really holding you back. By the end of this episode, you’ll know how to identify whether it’s perfectionism, executive dysfunction, or both—and what to do next. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✅ How perfectionism and executive dysfunction create a cycle of avoidance ✅ The difference between procrastination, perfectionism, and task paralysis ✅ How time blindness makes perfectionists wait for the perfect time ✅ Why searching for the “best” system can actually be procrastination ✅ A practical way to recognize what’s really keeping you stuck Host: Sarah Lovell, Executive Function & ADHD Coach Resources Mentioned: Free training: Creating a Formula to Overcome Procrastination and Get Unstuck Coaching Membership: Stuck to Started Connect with Sarah Lovell: Website: Executive Functioning First Email: sarah@executivefunctioningfirst.com Instagram: @executivefunctioningfirst Music by: AudioCoffee, Inspirational Background…

From Stuck to Started: Executive Function & ADHD Coaching to Take Action

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022: Don't let perfectionism steal your joy: how to stop overthinking & take action as a perfectionist 16:02

לפני 14 ימים16:02

16:02

Is perfectionism keeping you from doing the things you WANT to do? I’m breaking down how perfectionism sneaks into your hobbies, creativity, and daily life, keeping you from experiencing full joy. By the end of this episode, you’ll know how to recognize where perfectionism is stealing your joy—and how to take back control with small, simple shifts. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✅ The sneaky ways perfectionism holds you back from things that bring you joy ✅ Why perfectionists struggle with hobbies, creativity, and trying new things ✅ The difference between healthy standards vs. perfectionistic fear ✅ How to shift your mindset and stop waiting for the “perfect” time ✅ A simple challenge to help you start doing things just for fun Host: Sarah Lovell, Executive Function & ADHD Coach Resources Mentioned: Free training: Creating a Formula to Overcome Procrastination and Get Unstuck Coaching Membership: Stuck to Started Connect with Sarah Lovell: Website: Executive Functioning First Email: sarah@executivefunctioningfirst.com Instagram: @executivefunctioningfirst Music by: AudioCoffee, Inspirational Background…

From Stuck to Started: Executive Function & ADHD Coaching to Take Action

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021: How Perfectionism Leads to Procrastination & Strategies to Navigate the Discomfort of Starting Tasks 16:55

לפני 21 ימים16:55

16:55

Perfectionism isn’t just about high standards; it’s about fear—fear of failure, fear of judgment, fear of not being good enough. I break down why our brains avoid discomfort and, more importantly, how we can retrain our thinking to push through. By the end of this episode, you’ll have actionable strategies to move past avoidance and take that first step—whether it’s asking for help, tackling a big project, or simply getting started. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✅ The hidden connection between perfectionism, ADHD, and procrastination ✅ Why avoiding discomfort keeps you stuck in task paralysis ✅ How to reframe discomfort as part of growth, not something to fear ✅ The difference between being stuck vs. procrastinating (and why it matters!) ✅ A mindset shift that makes starting tasks easier and less overwhelming Host: Sarah Lovell, Executive Function & ADHD Coach Resources Mentioned: Free training: Creating a Formula to Overcome Procrastination and Get Unstuck Coaching Membership: Stuck to Started Connect with Sarah Lovell: Website: Executive Functioning First Email: sarah@executivefunctioningfirst.com Instagram: @executivefunctioningfirst Music by: AudioCoffee, Inspirational Background…

From Stuck to Started: Executive Function & ADHD Coaching to Take Action

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020: The Perfectionism Trap—Why It Keeps You Stuck & What to do About It 19:47

לפני 28 ימים19:47

19:47

If you find yourself overthinking, overdoing, or avoiding things because of perfectionism - this episode is for you. I dive into what’s really hiding underneath perfectionism, how it leads to overthinking, avoidance, and burnout, and most importantly—how to shift your thinking. I also share a story about a circus unit in my middle school gym class that has stuck with me to this day. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ The hidden fears underneath perfectionism (and why they hold you back) ✔️ Why perfectionism and executive dysfunction create a cycle of overwhelm ✔️ The difference between striving for excellence vs. being trapped by perfectionism ✔️ How to adjust expectations without feeling like you’re "lowering your standards" ✔️ A simple mindset shift to stop overthinking and take action Resources Mentioned: Free training: Creating a Formula to Overcome Procrastination and Get Unstuck Coaching Membership: Stuck to Started Connect with Sarah Lovell: Website: Executive Functioning First Email: sarah@executivefunctioningfirst.com Instagram: @executivefunctioningfirst Music by: AudioCoffee, Inspirational Background…

From Stuck to Started: Executive Function & ADHD Coaching to Take Action

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019: How to Take Action When You’re Overwhelmed & Don’t Know Where to Start 25:39

לפני 5 weeks25:39

25:39

If you’ve ever felt like you’re constantly playing catch-up or struggling to keep the plates spinning, this episode is packed with realistic, practical strategies to help you navigate overwhelm and move forward with more clarity and ease.I break down what overwhelm actually is, why it happens, and how it impacts ADHD and executive function. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ How to identify different types of overwhelm (emotional, sensory, time-related, decision fatigue, etc.) ✔️ Why overwhelm impacts executive function and makes task-switching harder ✔️ The role of self-talk in managing stress and avoiding burnout ✔️ How to prioritize and decide what will have the most impact right now ✔️ A step-by-step process to check in with yourself and create a realistic plan ✔️ Why adjusting expectations and self-compassion are key to navigating overwhelm Host: Sarah Lovell, Executive Function & ADHD Coach Resources Mentioned: Free training: Creating a Formula to Overcome Procrastination and Get Unstuck Coaching Membership: Stuck to Started Connect with Sarah Lovell: Website: Executive Functioning First Email: sarah@executivefunctioningfirst.com Instagram: @executivefunctioningfirst Music by: AudioCoffee, Inspirational Background…

From Stuck to Started: Executive Function & ADHD Coaching to Take Action

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018: How to Break Free from ADHD Waiting Mode: 6 Practical Strategies 23:49

לפני 6 weeks23:49

23:49

Are you the kind of person who has a 2 p.m appointment and you can't do anything until that appointment happens? That’s waiting mode. In this episode, I dive into why it happens (hello, executive functioning!) and how it impacts your ability to stay productive. I share 6 practical strategies to help you break free from this frustrating pattern. Host: Sarah Lovell, Executive Function & ADHD Coach Resources Mentioned: Free training: Creating a Formula to Overcome Procrastination and Get Unstuck Coaching Membership: Stuck to Started Connect with Sarah Lovell: Website: Executive Functioning First Email: sarah@executivefunctioningfirst.com Instagram: @executivefunctioningfirst Music by: AudioCoffee, Inspirational Background…

From Stuck to Started: Executive Function & ADHD Coaching to Take Action

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017: “I wish I started sooner:” 5 Strategies to Get Unstuck 31:18

לפני 7 weeks31:18

31:18

Have you ever really wanted to start something but been paralyzed and overwhelmed? In this episode, I explore what it means to feel stuck and how it differs from procrastination. I walk you through a simple framework to help you take action, even when starting feels overwhelming. Host: Sarah Lovell, Executive Function and ADHD Coach Resources Mentioned: Free Training to Overcome Procrastination Coaching Membership: Stuck to Started Connect with Sarah Lovell: Website: Executive Functioning First Email: sarah@executivefunctioningfirst.com Instagram: @executivefunctioningfirst Music by: AudioCoffee, Inspirational Background Podcast edit by: Chelsea Koenigsknecht of KC Virtual, Instagram: @KC_Virtual…

From Stuck to Started: Executive Function & ADHD Coaching to Take Action

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016: Endless Laundry & Constant Clutter?! ADHD Cleaning Tips That Won’t Burn You Out 31:49

לפני 8 weeks31:49

31:49

Got piles of laundry, mountains of dishes, and miles of mess? You’re not alone. Cleaning is a never-ending cycle. If you’ve ever felt guilt or frustration about keeping up with your home, this episode is for you. You’ll leave with a new way to think about chores, feel validated about the struggle, and have tools to help you take action in a way that feels good. Host: Sarah Lovell, Executive Function and ADHD Coach Episode Highlights: 00:00 Understanding the Overwhelm of House Chores 05:33 Reframing Cleaning Expectations 10:48 Identity and Cleaning: Changing the Narrative 16:43 Strategies for Managing Cleaning Overwhelm 23:09 Tools and Techniques for Effective Cleaning 27:24 Community Support and Resources for Cleaning Challenges 31:01 Outro Resources Mentioned: Coaching Membership: Stuck to Started Stuck to Started Episode 9: The Secret to Goals That Stick Goblin Tools : An AI tool recommended for breaking down tasks into manageable steps. ChatGPT : resource for brainstorming and breaking down cleaning tasks, particularly helpful for ADHD-friendly approaches. Connect with Sarah Lovell: Website: Executive Functioning First Email: sarah@executivefunctioningfirst.com Instagram: @executivefunctioningfirst Music by: AudioCoffee, Inspirational Background Podcast edit by: Chelsea Koenigsknecht of KC Virtual, Instagram: @KC_Virtual…

From Stuck to Started: Executive Function & ADHD Coaching to Take Action

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015: How Strength-Based Education & Community Transforms the Lives of Neurodivergent and 2E Students with Sam Young 50:39

לפני 9 weeks50:39

50:39

I chatted with Sam Young, M.Ed, the Head of School at Young Scholars Academy, about what it means to be “twice-exceptional,” the challenges neurodivergent students face, and how community and leaning into strengths builds confidence and sets students up for success. This is a great conversation for educators, parents, neurodivergent adults, and anyone who’s passionate about supporting unique learners. Connect with Sam Young & Learn more about Young Scholars Academy Website: https://youngscholarsacademy.org/ Facebook: Young Scholars Academy Instagram: @youngscholarsacademy BONUS : Podcast Listeners Save 10% on all classes when you use my code YSALOVELL10 Connect with Sarah Lovell: Website: Executive Functioning First Instagram: @executivefunctioningfirst Music by: AudioCoffee, Inspirational Background…

From Stuck to Started: Executive Function & ADHD Coaching to Take Action

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014: Are you a Procrastiplanner? Here’s how to Actually Start the Thing 26:58

לפני 10 weeks26:58

26:58

This one is for overplanners who spend a ton of time and energy planning, but then don’t take action. Learn how to find the “Goldilocks effect” with planning—just the right amount to keep you moving forward. Whether you’re an over-planner or someone who consistently wings it, you’ll find actionable takeaways to strike a better balance and avoid getting stuck. Host: Sarah Lovell, Executive Function and ADHD Coach Episode Highlights: (time stamps) 00:00 The Dilemma of Over-Planning vs. Action 09:45 Finding Balance: The Goldilocks Effect in Planning 18:50 Recognizing When to Stop Planning 22:22 Embracing Flexibility in Planning and Action 26:22 Outro Resources Mentioned: Coaching Membership: Stuck to Started Free Training to Overcome Procrastination Connect with Sarah Lovell: Website: Executive Functioning First Email: sarah@executivefunctioningfirst.com Instagram: @executivefunctioningfirst Music by: AudioCoffee, Inspirational Background Podcast edit by: Chelsea Koenigsknecht of KC Virtual, Instagram: @KC_Virtual…

From Stuck to Started: Executive Function & ADHD Coaching to Take Action

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013: Why Goals Feel Hard: Embracing Discomfort to Get Started 26:21

לפני 11 weeks26:21

26:21

Working on your goals often comes down to embracing discomfort. I’m sharing a non-traditional way to think about goals. I’ll share practical tips to help you identify and reframe the roadblocks that are keeping you stuck, how to navigate perfectionism and all-or-nothing thinking, and why consistency doesn’t mean what you think it does. Host : Sarah Lovell, Executive Function and ADHD Coach Resources Mentioned: Coaching Membership: Stuck to Started Free training: Creating a Formula to Overcome Procrastination and Get Unstuck Connect with Sarah Lovell: Website: Executive Functioning First Email: sarah@executivefunctioningfirst.com Instagram: @executivefunctioningfirst Music by: AudioCoffee, Inspirational Background Podcast edit by: Chelsea Koenigsknecht of KC Virtual, Instagram: @KC_Virtual…

From Stuck to Started: Executive Function & ADHD Coaching to Take Action

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012: For Overwhelmed People Pleasers: How to Set Boundaries, Advocate for Yourself, and Reclaim Your Time 27:08

לפני 12 weeks27:08

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This one is for my people-pleasers! Do you find it easier to advocate for others—your partner, your kids, or even your pets—than for yourself? You’re not alone. In this episode, I dive into the art of boundary setting, self-advocacy, and asking for help without guilt, especially for my fellow recovering people pleasers. I’ll share simple strategies to pause, prioritize, and protect your time and energy so you can show up for yourself and others in a healthier way. Host: Sarah Lovell, Executive Function and ADHD Coach Resources Mentioned: Coaching Membership: Stuck to Started Free Training to Overcome Procrastination Connect with Sarah Lovell: Website: Executive Functioning First Email: sarah@executivefunctioningfirst.com Instagram: @executivefunctioningfirst Music by: AudioCoffee, Inspirational Background Podcast edit by: Chelsea Koenigsknecht of KC Virtual, Instagram: @KC_Virtual…

From Stuck to Started: Executive Function & ADHD Coaching to Take Action

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011: Why Motivation Feels So Hard & What to do About It 30:25

לפני 13 weeks30:25

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One of the most common struggles my clients face is motivation: how to find it, how to sustain it, and what to do when it’s just not there. In this episode, I talk about why motivation ebbs and flows and how to take action even when motivation feels miles away. I’ll share five concrete strategies you can start using today. Host: Sarah Lovell, Executive Function and ADHD Coach Resources Mentioned: Coaching Membership: Stuck to Started Free On Demand Workshop- How to Overcome Procrastination Connect with Sarah Lovell: Website: Executive Functioning First Email: sarah@executivefunctioningfirst.com Instagram: @executivefunctioningfirst Music by: AudioCoffee, Inspirational Background Podcast edit by: Chelsea Koenigsknecht of KC Virtual, Instagram: @KC_Virtual…

From Stuck to Started: Executive Function & ADHD Coaching to Take Action

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010: Why “New Year, New You” Isn’t the Answer—and What to Do Instead! 25:39

לפני 15 weeks25:39

25:39

Host : Sarah Lovell, Executive Function and ADHD Coach Description : I don’t believe in “New Year, New You.” You’re already pretty great! But if you’re feeling inspired to set some goals, let’s talk about how to approach them in a way that feels sustainable and supportive—not overwhelming. Whether you’re someone who loves goal-setting or feels stressed just thinking about it, this episode is packed with practical tips to make your goals work for you—any time of year. I’ll share why I’ve moved away from traditional January goal-setting, how I’ve shifted my own self-talk around big goals, and why reflecting and adjusting your plans throughout the year makes all the difference. Episode Highlights: 00:00 New Year, New Goals: A Different Perspective 08:26 The Journey to Podcasting: Overcoming Barriers 15:51 Self-Talk and Goal Setting: The Foundation of Action 22:37 Reflection and Sustainable Change: Questions to Consider 25:03 Outro Resources Mentioned: Coaching Membership: Stuck to Started Reflection Questions for Goal Setting How do you want to grow in the next year? What changes will help you make your life look the way you want it to? How can you work on your goals in a way that excites you but avoids burnout? Connect with Sarah Lovell: Website: Executive Functioning First Email: sarah@executivefunctioningfirst.com Instagram: @executivefunctioningfirst Music by: AudioCoffee, Inspirational Background Podcast edit by: Chelsea Koenigsknecht of KC Virtual, Instagram: @KC_Virtual…

From Stuck to Started: Executive Function & ADHD Coaching to Take Action

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009: The Secret to Goals That Stick 25:37

לפני 16 weeks25:37

25:37

If you’ve ever set a goal, felt super motivated for a couple of weeks, and then let it fall apart—or if goal-setting feels so overwhelming that you avoid it altogether—this episode is for you. I’m sharing a fresh approach to setting goals that align with your identity. Whether you want to embrace a new habit, take on a new challenge, or simply follow through on what matters to you, this episode will give you actionable tips to get started—and keep going. Host: Sarah Lovell, Executive Function and ADHD Coach Resources Mentioned: Coaching Membership: Stuck to Started Connect with Sarah Lovell: Website: Executive Functioning First Email: sarah@executivefunctioningfirst.com Instagram: @executivefunctioningfirst Music by: AudioCoffee, Inspirational Background Podcast edit by: Chelsea Koenigsknecht of KC Virtual, Instagram: @KC_Virtual…

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