Artwork

תוכן מסופק על ידי Stefan Molyneux. כל תוכן הפודקאסטים כולל פרקים, גרפיקה ותיאורי פודקאסטים מועלים ומסופקים ישירות על ידי Stefan Molyneux או שותף פלטפורמת הפודקאסט שלו. אם אתה מאמין שמישהו משתמש ביצירה שלך המוגנת בזכויות יוצרים ללא רשותך, אתה יכול לעקוב אחר התהליך המתואר כאן https://he.player.fm/legal.
Player FM - אפליקציית פודקאסט
התחל במצב לא מקוון עם האפליקציה Player FM !

Chapter 7

1:08:22
 
שתפו
 

Manage episode 380980258 series 3521730
תוכן מסופק על ידי Stefan Molyneux. כל תוכן הפודקאסטים כולל פרקים, גרפיקה ותיאורי פודקאסטים מועלים ומסופקים ישירות על ידי Stefan Molyneux או שותף פלטפורמת הפודקאסט שלו. אם אתה מאמין שמישהו משתמש ביצירה שלך המוגנת בזכויות יוצרים ללא רשותך, אתה יכול לעקוב אחר התהליך המתואר כאן https://he.player.fm/legal.
Chapters0:00:00 Setting the stage for Peaceful Parenting0:03:24 The short-term effects of hitting children0:05:23 The Impact of Verbal Abuse on Children0:07:29 The Myth of Natural Tantrums and Child Abuse0:10:49 Tantrums: The Frustration of Unmet Needs in Children0:11:13 Recognizing the Disabilities of Young Children0:14:31 Desperate to Know: Red Berries or Blueberries?0:18:15 Frustration of Trying to Help: Reactions of Rage and Indifference0:21:55 The Power of Listening and Understanding0:23:16 Parents claim they parented as they were parented0:27:02 The argument worsens: spanking and free will0:30:11 Finding one counterexample destroys the defense0:31:27 The Moral Insanity of Assigning Free Will to Children0:46:20 The Power of Negative Labels and Parental Influence0:47:48 The Restraint of Power1:02:28 The importance of understanding consent and preferences1:07:59 No Guarantees in ParentingLong SummaryIn this episode, we delve into the topic of peaceful parenting and the damaging effects of abusive methods of discipline on children. We stress the importance of reflection and therapy for adults with unresolved childhood or parenting traumas. We emphasize the inconsistency of using physical and verbal abuse to prepare children for adulthood, as these behaviors are considered illegal and unacceptable in adult relationships and workplaces.We highlight the damaging effects of spanking and verbal abuse, explaining that these methods instill fear and do not promote genuine behavior change. We emphasize the importance of modeling the behaviors we expect from children and treating them with respect. We challenge the misconception that tantrums are natural and should be ignored or punished, offering an empathetic perspective on how children experience extreme emotional upset.We argue against parents who claim they parent the way they were parented, pointing out that people constantly upgrade various aspects of their lives and can learn and improve their parenting skills. We discuss the concept of childhood and moral free will, challenging the idea that hitting children is assigning moral responsibility and free choice to them while simultaneously claiming not to have those qualities themselves...
  continue reading

22 פרקים

Artwork

Chapter 7

Peaceful Parenting

published

iconשתפו
 
Manage episode 380980258 series 3521730
תוכן מסופק על ידי Stefan Molyneux. כל תוכן הפודקאסטים כולל פרקים, גרפיקה ותיאורי פודקאסטים מועלים ומסופקים ישירות על ידי Stefan Molyneux או שותף פלטפורמת הפודקאסט שלו. אם אתה מאמין שמישהו משתמש ביצירה שלך המוגנת בזכויות יוצרים ללא רשותך, אתה יכול לעקוב אחר התהליך המתואר כאן https://he.player.fm/legal.
Chapters0:00:00 Setting the stage for Peaceful Parenting0:03:24 The short-term effects of hitting children0:05:23 The Impact of Verbal Abuse on Children0:07:29 The Myth of Natural Tantrums and Child Abuse0:10:49 Tantrums: The Frustration of Unmet Needs in Children0:11:13 Recognizing the Disabilities of Young Children0:14:31 Desperate to Know: Red Berries or Blueberries?0:18:15 Frustration of Trying to Help: Reactions of Rage and Indifference0:21:55 The Power of Listening and Understanding0:23:16 Parents claim they parented as they were parented0:27:02 The argument worsens: spanking and free will0:30:11 Finding one counterexample destroys the defense0:31:27 The Moral Insanity of Assigning Free Will to Children0:46:20 The Power of Negative Labels and Parental Influence0:47:48 The Restraint of Power1:02:28 The importance of understanding consent and preferences1:07:59 No Guarantees in ParentingLong SummaryIn this episode, we delve into the topic of peaceful parenting and the damaging effects of abusive methods of discipline on children. We stress the importance of reflection and therapy for adults with unresolved childhood or parenting traumas. We emphasize the inconsistency of using physical and verbal abuse to prepare children for adulthood, as these behaviors are considered illegal and unacceptable in adult relationships and workplaces.We highlight the damaging effects of spanking and verbal abuse, explaining that these methods instill fear and do not promote genuine behavior change. We emphasize the importance of modeling the behaviors we expect from children and treating them with respect. We challenge the misconception that tantrums are natural and should be ignored or punished, offering an empathetic perspective on how children experience extreme emotional upset.We argue against parents who claim they parent the way they were parented, pointing out that people constantly upgrade various aspects of their lives and can learn and improve their parenting skills. We discuss the concept of childhood and moral free will, challenging the idea that hitting children is assigning moral responsibility and free choice to them while simultaneously claiming not to have those qualities themselves...
  continue reading

22 פרקים

כל הפרקים

×
 
Loading …

ברוכים הבאים אל Player FM!

Player FM סורק את האינטרנט עבור פודקאסטים באיכות גבוהה בשבילכם כדי שתהנו מהם כרגע. זה יישום הפודקאסט הטוב ביותר והוא עובד על אנדרואיד, iPhone ואינטרנט. הירשמו לסנכרון מנויים במכשירים שונים.

 

מדריך עזר מהיר