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๐Ÿ˜ฏ The Condom Slipped Off! How To Have "THE" Conversation

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ืชื•ื›ืŸ ืžืกื•ืคืง ืขืœ ื™ื“ื™ Ed and Phoebe Swinger and Phoebe Swinger. ื›ืœ ืชื•ื›ืŸ ื”ืคื•ื“ืงืืกื˜ื™ื ื›ื•ืœืœ ืคืจืงื™ื, ื’ืจืคื™ืงื” ื•ืชื™ืื•ืจื™ ืคื•ื“ืงืืกื˜ื™ื ืžื•ืขืœื™ื ื•ืžืกื•ืคืงื™ื ื™ืฉื™ืจื•ืช ืขืœ ื™ื“ื™ Ed and Phoebe Swinger and Phoebe Swinger ืื• ืฉื•ืชืฃ ืคืœื˜ืคื•ืจืžืช ื”ืคื•ื“ืงืืกื˜ ืฉืœื”ื. ืื ืืชื” ืžืืžื™ืŸ ืฉืžื™ืฉื”ื• ืžืฉืชืžืฉ ื‘ื™ืฆื™ืจื” ืฉืœืš ื”ืžื•ื’ื ืช ื‘ื–ื›ื•ื™ื•ืช ื™ื•ืฆืจื™ื ืœืœื ืจืฉื•ืชืš, ืืชื” ื™ื›ื•ืœ ืœืขืงื•ื‘ ืื—ืจ ื”ืชื”ืœื™ืš ื”ืžืชื•ืืจ ื›ืืŸ https://he.player.fm/legal.

Have you ever been playing with a new sexual partner and the condom slips off? How was it communicated to you? What was your reaction? Can you come back from this?

Instead of brushing it off as no big deal, we are going to reveal my process and outline it in our blog so it may help you address a similar situation or any situation that involves consent and violations of consent. We are proof that you can preserve the relationship and friendship if you so desire.

OUTLINE:

What do you do when the condom slips off during play?

  • Brush it off?
  • Address it?
  • Ghost the person?

Who is at fault?

  • User?
  • Recipient?

How does it happen?

  • Dark room
  • Sex position

Our story:

  • Type of friendship
  • Length of friendship
  • The situation
  • Lack of disclosure

How to have the conversation:

  • Tell them what happened ahead of time
  • Don't blindside them
  • Express you aren't ready to talk about it
  • Set a date
  • Gives them time to process also

Use the Consent Academy Process when Consent is Broken

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Manage episode 372069148 series 2881706
ืชื•ื›ืŸ ืžืกื•ืคืง ืขืœ ื™ื“ื™ Ed and Phoebe Swinger and Phoebe Swinger. ื›ืœ ืชื•ื›ืŸ ื”ืคื•ื“ืงืืกื˜ื™ื ื›ื•ืœืœ ืคืจืงื™ื, ื’ืจืคื™ืงื” ื•ืชื™ืื•ืจื™ ืคื•ื“ืงืืกื˜ื™ื ืžื•ืขืœื™ื ื•ืžืกื•ืคืงื™ื ื™ืฉื™ืจื•ืช ืขืœ ื™ื“ื™ Ed and Phoebe Swinger and Phoebe Swinger ืื• ืฉื•ืชืฃ ืคืœื˜ืคื•ืจืžืช ื”ืคื•ื“ืงืืกื˜ ืฉืœื”ื. ืื ืืชื” ืžืืžื™ืŸ ืฉืžื™ืฉื”ื• ืžืฉืชืžืฉ ื‘ื™ืฆื™ืจื” ืฉืœืš ื”ืžื•ื’ื ืช ื‘ื–ื›ื•ื™ื•ืช ื™ื•ืฆืจื™ื ืœืœื ืจืฉื•ืชืš, ืืชื” ื™ื›ื•ืœ ืœืขืงื•ื‘ ืื—ืจ ื”ืชื”ืœื™ืš ื”ืžืชื•ืืจ ื›ืืŸ https://he.player.fm/legal.

Have you ever been playing with a new sexual partner and the condom slips off? How was it communicated to you? What was your reaction? Can you come back from this?

Instead of brushing it off as no big deal, we are going to reveal my process and outline it in our blog so it may help you address a similar situation or any situation that involves consent and violations of consent. We are proof that you can preserve the relationship and friendship if you so desire.

OUTLINE:

What do you do when the condom slips off during play?

  • Brush it off?
  • Address it?
  • Ghost the person?

Who is at fault?

  • User?
  • Recipient?

How does it happen?

  • Dark room
  • Sex position

Our story:

  • Type of friendship
  • Length of friendship
  • The situation
  • Lack of disclosure

How to have the conversation:

  • Tell them what happened ahead of time
  • Don't blindside them
  • Express you aren't ready to talk about it
  • Set a date
  • Gives them time to process also

Use the Consent Academy Process when Consent is Broken

Support the show

Get Your Tickets to Libertine Events:
Promo Code *:
SwingerU at checkout
Miami Vices - May 31-June3, 2024
Senses - October 11-14, 2024

Our Links:

* We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you.

  continue reading

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