The Show Up Framework: Empowering Parents of Preteens

The Fallible Man Podcast

Are you bracing yourself for the preteen years? In this eye-opening conversation, I sit down with Marcus Higgs, a presence coach for parents of preteens, who reveals why this stage isn't something to fear, but an opportunity to forge an unbreakable bond with your child.

Through captivating insights and practical wisdom, Marcus illuminates:

The "ICE" Model: Understanding Your Preteen's Inner World

• Why your child's shifting identity is a natural and necessary part of growth
• How to navigate the tricky waters of collaborative mistrust
• Practical strategies to support your preteen's developing emotional management skills

The "Show Up" Framework: A Blueprint for Authentic Connection

• Start with a strong character identity: Harnessing your child's unique strengths
• Hold space for collaboration: Fostering critical thinking and problem-solving skills
• Open up communication: Passing on values without being preachy
• Wonder and explore this world together: The power of shared projects and goals

Unveiling Potential Together: The Heart of the Framework

• Why letting go of the reins is crucial for your child's development
• How to create an environment of mutual growth and flourishing

Marcus doesn't just offer theory – he provides actionable steps you can implement today:

• Communicate unconditional acceptance (even when it's challenging)
• Prioritize your own well-being to show up as your best self
• Embrace the present moment, knowing these years are fleeting

Whether you're already navigating the preteen years or they're on the horizon, this conversation will equip you with the tools to not just survive, but thrive during this transformative stage. Are you ready to reframe your perspective and build a relationship that will last a lifetime?

Tune in and discover how to become the trustworthy, present parent your preteen needs.

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-- Connect with Marcus --

Website - https://marcushiggs.com

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LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/marcushiggs

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-- Time Stamps --

00:00:00 Understanding and Navigating the Preteen Years

00:02:33 Introducing Marcus Higgs, the Presence Coach for Parents

00:15:35 FOR PEOPLE WHO WANT TO SKIP THE GET TO KNOW YOU SEGMENT - START HERE

00:18:17 The Essence of Being a Presence Coach for Parents

00:23:22 Understanding the Common Struggles of Preteens

00:27:57 Transitioning to a Coaching Parenting Style

00:28:52 Creating a Family Culture and Setting Expectations

00:30:30 Communication and Problem-Solving Approach

00:34:19 Dealing with Emotions in Preteens

00:36:22 Recognizing Signs of Emotional Distress in Preteens

00:43:41 Impact of Technology on Mental Health

00:46:52 Trust Economy in Parenting

00:47:29 The Importance of Character Strengths in Positive Psychology

01:01:52 Building a Strong Relationship with Preteens

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