Why Being Busy Is Destroying Your Success (And What to Do Instead)

The High Value Man Conversation

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In today’s fast-paced world, busyness is worn like a badge of honor, but is it truly the key to success and fulfillment? In this episode, we explore the difference between being busy and being purposeful. Learn how to say "no" to distractions and "yes" to alignment with your mission.
Josh and Erin dive deep into the myths of productivity, how overcommitting can sabotage your growth, and why focusing on what truly matters can transform your life. Whether you’re a man overwhelmed by obligations or someone seeking clarity in the chaos, this episode is your roadmap to freedom through focus.
It’s time to redefine success, reclaim your time, and live intentionally.
👉 Join the conversation to create the life you’re meant to live!
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1. Finding Purpose and Reducing Stress (00:00:00)

2. Choosing Purposeful Alignment Over Overcommitment (00:03:59)

3. Managing Commitments and Values (00:14:16)

4. Creating Vision, Values, and Unity (00:19:35)

5. Reclaiming Purpose and Reducing Stress (00:27:57)

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#Fitness #Religion #Christianity #Podcasting Education #Self-Improvement #Erin Alejandrino

Why Being Busy Is Destroying Your Success (And What to Do Instead)

The High Value Man Conversation

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פרקים

1. Finding Purpose and Reducing Stress (00:00:00)

2. Choosing Purposeful Alignment Over Overcommitment (00:03:59)

3. Managing Commitments and Values (00:14:16)

4. Creating Vision, Values, and Unity (00:19:35)

5. Reclaiming Purpose and Reducing Stress (00:27:57)

86 פרקים

#Fitness #Religion #Christianity #Podcasting Education #Self-Improvement #Erin Alejandrino

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