Thriving Amidst Chaos: KL Wells Discusses Loving Someone with Addiction

Thrive While Loving an Addict | Addiction | Sobriety | Recovery | Relapse

In this podcast episode, producer and team member Steve Cary steps out from behind the scenes to host a heartfelt conversation with KL Wells, founder of Voices InCourage, about her experience as a mother navigating the complexities of loving someone struggling with addiction.

KL candidly shares her deeply personal journey, highlighting her son Sam’s battle with substance use disorder, particularly the pivotal moment she discovered his fentanyl addiction. She describes the emotional toll, challenges, and ultimately how she managed not only to survive but truly thrive amidst the uncertainty and fear.

This episode serves as a powerful testament to resilience, personal agency, and finding peace and joy—even amidst the chaos of addiction in the family.

Key Discussion Points:

• ✅ KL’s journey from crisis to thriving while supporting her son through addiction.
• ✅ Her initial reaction upon discovering Sam’s fentanyl addiction and its emotional impact.
• ✅ The critical importance of setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care.
• ✅ Introducing the transformative BALM (Be A Loving Mirror) program for family support.
• ✅ Practical techniques for interrupting fear-based thinking and reclaiming personal power.
• ✅ The significance of fostering a supportive community to enhance resilience.

Some Questions I Ask:

• What was your initial reaction when you learned about Sam’s fentanyl addiction?
• How did you maintain your commitment to thriving despite ongoing uncertainty?
• Which resources have been most impactful on your healing journey?
• How do you overcome fear-based thinking to reclaim your power?
• What advice would you give families experiencing similar struggles?

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

• Strategies to manage the emotional rollercoaster of loving someone with addiction.
• How embracing personal agency can shift your experience from crisis to thriving.
• Actionable steps to transition from crisis mode into a healthier, thriving mindset.
• Ways to establish healthy boundaries without feeling guilty.
• The importance of building a strong, supportive community.
• Access to valuable resources like Positive Intelligence by Shirzad Chamine and the BALM program.

Resources Mentioned:

• 🌎 Voices InCourage: voicesincourage.com
• 📘 BALM Program: Learn More Here
• 📖 Positive Intelligence by Shirzad Chamine: Book & Program
• 🎙️ KL Wells’ TED Talk: Watch Here
• 🤝 Subscribe to the Voices InCourage Community: voicesincourage.com

👉 Listen now and take the first step toward reclaiming your peace and personal power.