422: Knowing When to Lean In and When to Let It Go

Wire Talk with Karen Stubbs

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You Can Visit All Seven Continents. But Should You? 26:46

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For many travelers, Antarctica is a bucket-list destination, a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to touch all seven continents. In 2023, a record-breaking 100,000 tourists made the trip. But the journey begs a fundamental question: What do we risk by traveling to a place that is supposed to be uninhabited by humans? And as the climate warms, should we really be going to Antarctica in the first place? SHOW NOTES: Kara Weller: The Impossible Dilemma of a Polar Guide Marilyn Raphael: A twenty-first century structural change in Antarctica’s sea ice system Karl Watson: First Time in Antarctica Jeb Brooks : 7 Days in Antarctica (Journey to the South Pole) Metallica - Freeze 'Em All: Live in Antarctica Learn about your ad choices: dovetail.prx.org/ad-choices…

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Episode Recap:

4:20 Are my expectations for my 5 year old too high?

8:06 Help! I have zero patience for my energetic kiddo right now!

12:28 You don’t have time “not have time” for your daily quiet time with God.

14:45 How do I handle a toddler who won’t stop crying?

18:53 I always have to fact-check my child. How do we stop the habit of lying?

21:09 My siblings’ children are wild at family functions and it sucks the joy out of our time together. What can I do?

Questions for Discussion:

How do you decide when to address your child's behavior and when to let things go?
Do you turn to prayer during challenging parenting moments, and can you share a time when it made a difference for you or your child?
Did you relate to the question about the toddler who won’t stop crying? Are any of your children especially sensitive or outwardly emotional? How do you help your child learn to express their emotions in a healthy way?
Do you have any relatives or close friends who have different parenting styles from you? Does it make those interactions challenging or have you found effective ways to handle those relationships?

Resources:

Pre-order Karen’s all-new Survival Guide to Motherhood today! Orders ship July 30th: https://amzn.to/3Vr7LlD
Want to bring Karen to speak in your community? Reach out: https://www.birdsonwiremoms.com/invite
Connect with Birds on a Wire Moms on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/birdsonawiremoms and Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/birdsonawiremoms

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422: Knowing When to Lean In and When to Let It Go

Wire Talk with Karen Stubbs

47 subscribers

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Episode Recap:

4:20 Are my expectations for my 5 year old too high?

8:06 Help! I have zero patience for my energetic kiddo right now!

12:28 You don’t have time “not have time” for your daily quiet time with God.

14:45 How do I handle a toddler who won’t stop crying?

18:53 I always have to fact-check my child. How do we stop the habit of lying?

21:09 My siblings’ children are wild at family functions and it sucks the joy out of our time together. What can I do?

Questions for Discussion:

How do you decide when to address your child's behavior and when to let things go?
Do you turn to prayer during challenging parenting moments, and can you share a time when it made a difference for you or your child?
Did you relate to the question about the toddler who won’t stop crying? Are any of your children especially sensitive or outwardly emotional? How do you help your child learn to express their emotions in a healthy way?
Do you have any relatives or close friends who have different parenting styles from you? Does it make those interactions challenging or have you found effective ways to handle those relationships?

Resources:

Pre-order Karen’s all-new Survival Guide to Motherhood today! Orders ship July 30th: https://amzn.to/3Vr7LlD
Want to bring Karen to speak in your community? Reach out: https://www.birdsonwiremoms.com/invite
Connect with Birds on a Wire Moms on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/birdsonawiremoms and Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/birdsonawiremoms

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464: How to Welcome Your College Kid Home Well 29:27

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Your college student has changed—and so has your family. In today’s episode, Karen and Emily talk about preparing for the emotional and practical realities of having a college student return home for the summer. From setting clear expectations to embracing the growth in your child, you'll walk away with practical tips (and encouragement) to navigate this bittersweet transition with grace! Episode Recap: 3:45 - Karen shares how re-entry was with different kids coming home from college 8:08- How can I temper my expectations before my kiddo comes home? 11:05 - Encourage your college student to get a job! 13:00 - How do we prepare our younger kids for their sibling’s reentry? 15:52 - What’s reasonable to ask of my college kid while they’re home? 21:34 - Is it ok for me to tell my college kid how their actions made me feel? If so, what’s the best way to do that? 25:19 - We have to allow our children to grow and learn on their own because God is at work in their lives. Don’t try to smooth the road out for them, let them learn. Scripture for Reflection: Ecclesiastes 3:1 (NIV) "There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens." Questions for Discussion : How has your family dynamic changed since your child left for college? What expectations do you need to reset—both for yourself and for your college student—before they return home? How can you communicate boundaries and responsibilities clearly without treating your college student like a child? In what ways can you celebrate and embrace who your child is becoming as a young adult? Resources: Don’t miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.com Download the BOAW app to send us your questions! https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927…

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463: Surviving Seasons of Solo Parenting 28:55

לפני 8 ימים28:55

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When your husband’s job pulls him away from home, it can leave you holding the weight of family life alone—and it’s exhausting. Today Karen is answering questions from moms whose husbands are frequently gone due to their line of work. From managing toddler tantrums and homeschooling to navigating resentment and self-pity, Karen shares hard-won wisdom from her own years in the trenches. Don’t miss Karen’s honest encouragement about what it means to trust God and stay grounded through the hard seasons! Episode Recap: 2:35 - Karen’s husband Greg travelled extensively with his job during their early family years 6:10 - How did you manage the inconsistency in your husband’s work schedule? 10:25 - We have to bring God into our daily walk as moms, He will sustain us 11:30 - My husband works in a traumatic field, how do I support him without letting the darkness and stress of his job affect our family? 15:05 - How do I help my husband get on board with what I’m doing at home since he’s away so often 18:23 - Emily’s tips for keeping preschooler occupied while mom homeschools other child 21:15 - I’m a working mom and my husband is in residency. I struggle with resentment and self-pity, how did you handle these emotions? Scripture for Reflection: Psalm 73:26 (NIV) “My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.” Questions for Discussion: What do you find most difficult when your husband is away—emotionally, practically, or spiritually? Have you ever struggled with self-pity or resentment in your parenting journey? What helped you move forward? Karen talks about letting go of the “scoreboard” in marriage and not expecting equal contribution all the time. How does that idea sit with you? What are some practical ways you could invite God into your hard season right now? If you’re parenting a strong-willed toddler, which of Karen and Emily’s ideas could you try this week? Resources: Download the BOAW app to send us your questions! https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927 Don’t miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.com Check out the Scoreboard of Life session within Karen’s The Six Truths of Motherhood curriculum: https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/collections/available-for-purchase/products/six-truths-study-guide…

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462: Why We Call It Good Friday 28:34

לפני 15 ימים28:34

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Today we’re talking about Good Friday —and reflecting on why something so awful was called ‘good.’ Karen walks through the events leading up to the cross, explains why Jesus had to die, and answers some common (and hard!) questions your kids and teens might be asking. Whether your children are little or nearly grown, we hope this conversation equips you to talk about Jesus’ sacrifice and bring the hope of Easter into your home this week. Episode Recap: 2:10 - We don’t have to know everything, moms! But it’s our job to point our kids to answers 2:36 - Recap of events leading up to Good Friday 5:42 - Matthew 27:51-53 shares some incredible things that happened when Jesus died 8:44 - Jesus willing endured the Cross for us - that makes Friday good! 9:30 - Why did Jesus have to die? Wasn’t there another way? 12:51 - Jesus was fully man and fully God, He is our High Priest 13:35- Forgiveness doesn’t mean justice is ignored 14:24 - How do we know Jesus’ death was real? What about the Resurrection? 20:16 - What are practical ways to bring your family together around the story of Good Friday and Easter? 24:00 - Don’t be afraid of your kids’ questions, dive in together and look for the truth! Scripture for Reflection: Isaiah 53:5 (NIV) “But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was on him, and by his wounds we are healed.” Questions for Discussion: What makes Good Friday “good,” even though it was such a dark day? How can we engage well with our kids when they ask hard questions about Jesus’ death or the resurrection? What does it mean to you personally that Jesus said, “Not my will, but yours be done”? How can your family focus on Jesus this Easter in a meaningful way—especially if your kids aren’t naturally interested? Resources: Download the BOAW app to send us your questions! https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927 Don’t miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.com…

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461: When Little Ones Push Back: Practical Discipline for Moms 26:26

לפני 22 ימים26:26

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From dealing with toddlers who constantly say "no!" to navigating three-year-old stubbornness, today Karen is answering your questions and sharing practical strategies to help you respond with consistency and grace. You’ll learn how to set boundaries that stick and understand why repetition is key to laying a foundation of obedience. Whether you're managing meltdowns or guiding a strong-willed child, this episode will equip you to keep calm and parent on! Episode Recap: 2:43 - Is age two or three more difficult? 4:41 - My four yr old doesn’t listen and it puts him in danger! How can I get him to take me seriously? 7:15 - Toddlers HAVE to know that you are going to follow through! 8:50 - I’m constantly threatening my 2.5 yr old daughter with consequences for not obeying, is she only obeying out of fear? 11:00 - My 7 year old daughter has no motivation to do anything! How do I get her to get moving? 14:25 - Talk to your child’s teacher if their homework seems to take them forever at home, there could be something to pay attention to there. 18:55 - Help! My husband and I are at our wit’s end with our combative 4 year old. Scripture for Reflection: Galatians 6:9 (NIV) "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up." Questions for Discussion: What are some challenges you face with your toddler or preschooler’s strong emotions? How do you typically respond? How do you balance immediate consequences with teaching long-term obedience? What strategies have you found helpful for setting boundaries with strong-willed children? How can you maintain consistency when it feels like your child isn’t getting the message? Resources: Download the BOAW app to send us your questions! https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927 Don’t miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.com Kathleen Edelman’s A Grown Up’s Guide to Kids’ Wiring: https://amzn.to/4lmF5VF Wire Talk episode 433 with Wellesley Jongko: https://wiretalk.transistor.fm/episodes/433-you-can-set-your-child-up-for-readin…

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460: Title: Help! My Teen is Struggling 31:07

לפני 29 ימים31:07

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The stakes feel high when you’re parenting teenagers, but you don’t have to go it alone! Today Karen is answering questions from moms facing challenges as they are navigating the teen years. From dealing with inappropriate relationships and emotional struggles to setting boundaries and having tough conversations, Karen offers encouragement to help you parent with confidence. Whether your teen is acting out or just feeling melancholic, you'll find practical wisdom and support in this candid conversation. Episode Recap: 4:06- It’s critical to be a parent rather than a friend during the teen years. 6:48- My 16 yr old is texting inappropriate pictures with his girlfriend, what do we do? 11:49- Strategies for connecting with a melancholic teen. 16:50- My college-age child is making poor choices when it comes to grades/work ethic - what does tough love look like? 23:07- How do I firmly address drug/alcohol use concerns with young adults who aren’t living at home anymore? 26:21- My 16 year old is dealing with depression and thoughts of self-harm - help! Scripture for Reflection: Proverbs 22:6 (NIV) "Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it." Questions for Discussion: Do you struggle with balancing being a parent versus being a friend to your teenager? Think of a time your teen has made a poor choice. Did you manage your own emotions well while addressing the behavior? If not, what would it look like to have a re-do in that particular situation? What role does prayer play in your parenting during the teen years? What are 3 things you can be praying for your teen right now? Write them down and hold one another accountable to praying daily for those things in our teens’ lives. Resources: Check out our studio glow up on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/@birdsonawiremoms Don’t miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.com Listen to Raising Emotionally Strong Boys with David Thomas: https://wiretalk.transistor.fm/episodes/347-raising-emotionally-strong-boys-with-david-thomas…

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459: Not Every Conflict With Your Child Is Defiance (Sometimes, It’s Just Personality) 23:44

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From preschool power struggles to teenage arguments, this episode is full of real mom moments. Today, Karen’s answering your questions on sibling conflict, possessiveness, and strong-willed kids. Whether it’s a four year old not wanting to share, or a teenager pushing against boundaries, Karen reminds us that parenting isn’t about controlling every outcome—it’s about cultivating character, modeling grace, and being a steady presence as kids grow and learn. Episode Recap: 5:24- How do I help my child get over her excessive possessiveness? 9:50 - Should I get involved over the messiness of my daughters’ room? 12:18- My teens’ argumentativeness ruins the mood of our entire family, help! 17:55- How can I help cultivate a close relationship between siblings? Scripture for Reflection: Ephesians 4:2 (NIV) “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.” Questions for Discussion: Have you ever struggled with a child being overly possessive or anxious about their belongings? What has helped (or what would you try based on this episode)? How do you handle arguments with your strong-willed children, especially when they push back against authority? Is what you’re doing working? What’s one way you’ve helped your kids build or maintain a strong sibling bond? How do you balance honoring your child’s temperament with helping them grow in areas like generosity, respect, and submission? Which part of Karen’s advice in this episode resonated most with you today—and why? Resources: Check out our studio glow up on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/@birdsonawiremoms Don’t miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: www.soaratsea.com Want more on parenting toward your child’s temperament? Check out A Grown Up’s Guide to Kids’ Wiring: https://amzn.to/4c34sYC Listen to Karen’s episode with Abby: https://wiretalk.transistor.fm/episodes/wt-284-worth-the-fight-with-karen-and-abby Grab a copy of Karen’s devotional for Teen Girls: https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/collections/all-active-products/products/preorder-teen-devotional Want to know your or your child’s temperament? Take our FREE Colors Quiz! www.boaw.mom/quiz…

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458: Handling Hard Conversations with Grace 26:09

לפני 6 weeks26:09

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Navigating hard conversations can feel like walking a tightrope, especially when it comes to extended family! Today Karen is answering your questions about setting boundaries, honoring traditions while carving out your own space, and maintaining peace without losing your voice. We hope you’ll take away some practical nuggets for the next time you find yourself facing a difficult conversation. Episode Recap: 5:20 How do I know when to stand up for myself and when to bend? 6:22 My husband’s family celebrates religious holidays in a purely secular way. I’m always frustrated by it when we are with them! What can I do? 10:18 We feel guilted into vacationing with extended family every year when it really doesn’t work for us anymore. It has become a source of tension between my husband and I. How do we navigate this? 15:26 How do I “uninvite” our babysitter on our family vacation??! 20:00 My dad doesn’t want to see us at the holidays because he says we haven’t seen him/done enough with him all year long. How do I approach him? Scripture for Reflection: James 1:5 (NIV) "If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you." Questions for Discussion: Did you relate to Karen’s story about being “afraid” of the 7 year old neighbor? Do unpleasant conversations make you nervous? Have you experienced tension around family traditions or expectations? Do you have particular family members you find it difficult to communicate with? When navigating family gatherings or vacations, what boundaries have you established that have been helpful? How can you invite God into these difficult conversations for wisdom and peace? What steps can you take to ensure your core family unit is nurtured and protected, even amidst extended family obligations? Resources: - Don’t miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: www.soaratsea.com - Check out Wire Talk’s viral clip - https://youtube.com/shorts/yd-lyxHD0HU?feature=share - Take the free colors quiz - www.boaw.mom/quiz…

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457: Talking to Kids About Loss: Lessons from Where Did TJ Go? 25:55

לפני 7 weeks25:55

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Grief and joy don’t have to be opposites—sometimes, they go hand in hand. In this tender conversation, Annie F. Downs shares the story behind Where Did TJ Go?, a book she co-authored with her sister to help families navigate the loss of a child. Annie opens up about how her nephew TJ’s brief but impactful life deepened their family’s bond and taught them the beauty of holding joy and sorrow together. Whether you’ve experienced loss yourself or want to support a grieving family, this episode is filled with wisdom, encouragement, and hope. Episode Recap: 4:26- Annie F. Downs joins us today! 5:40- Prior to TJ’s death, Annie’s family was not nearly as close 8:00- Annie’s sister discovered she was pregnant with a child who had a life limiting diagnosis 10:45- Aunts and uncles get to say yes, so do it often! 12:45- How can we love on families who are raising kids while grieving? 14:30- Where Did TJ Go? is a conduit for families to connect while grieving 16:00- There is good news in sad stories, this is a Gospel story 20:50- Get a bookplate customized with the name of a child you want to honor Scripture for Reflection: Romans 12:15 (NIV) "Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn." Questions for Discussion: Annie talked about how grief and joy can coexist. Have you seen this play out in your own life or in the lives of those around you? How can we, as moms, create space for our children to express their emotions—both happy and sad—without feeling like they have to choose one over the other? Annie’s family found a surprising closeness through their loss. Have you experienced a hardship that has brought you closer to family? How did it change your relationships? What are some ways we can support grieving families, especially those with young children, in a way that honors their loss while also bringing hope? Resources: Pick up Where Did TJ Go? anywhere books are sold: https://amzn.to/4kxSYzT Get a bookplate customized with a name you want to honor at wheredidtjgo.com Last chance to register for the Soar Conference! Don’t procrastinate another day: https://subsplash.com/birdsonawire-ga/lb/ev/+j2j9wpq Connect with Annie: https://www.anniefdowns.com/…

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456: Raising Kids with Unshakable Faith 47:04

לפני 8 weeks47:04

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What is it like to raise children in the middle of a war? In this special episode, Karen sits down with Kimmie Saado, an American mom raising her five kids in Israel, to hear about the realities of life during conflict. From sirens and safe rooms to worshiping through fear, Kimmie shares how faith has anchored her family in uncertain times. Listen in as she encourages moms to raise up the next generation of Daniels—children who stand firm in faith, no matter the circumstances. Episode Recap: 1:26- Kimmie is an American mom raising five kids in Israel 3:03- How Kimmie and Sahar met and challenges of cross-cultural dating/engagement 7:50- What it’s like to lead a Bible tour company in Israel 13:20- Karen and Kimmie’s favorite places in Israel 15:45- what has it been like to raise children in a conflict zone? 19:39- how Kimmie’s son led their family in worship during moments of fear. 22:30- how faith-filled habits help equip our kids and others to stand firm in faith. 24:31- what does it mean to be a “Daniel”? 28:15- what Kimmie and Sahar are doing in the States this year 30:00- how Americans can pray and support the Jewish people right now 37:30- we have made God so small and our problems so big Scripture for Reflection: 2 Timothy 1:7 (NIV) “For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.” Questions for Discussion: Kimmie shared a vivid story about responding to a bombing by shouting a Bible verse and also, how her son responded to bombing sirens with worship. How do you model turning to your faith in scary times? Do your kids get to witness that? What does it mean to raise a "Daniel" in today’s world? How can we instill resilience and faith in our children? Kimmie and her husband took intentional steps to prepare for challenges before those challenges arrived. How can we spiritually equip our families before trials come? Kimmie spoke about finding peace in God’s presence, even in uncertainty. What are some practical ways we can cultivate that kind of faith in our own lives? Resources: Last chance to register for the Soar Conference! Don’t procrastinate another day: https://subsplash.com/birdsonawire-ga/lb/ev/+j2j9wpq Check out Kimmie and Sahar’s company: Israel Bible Tours: https://www.israelbibletours.com/…

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455: Helping Moms Lead Their Families in Faith 16:12

לפני 9 weeks16:12

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Discipling our kids can feel like a big responsibility, but moms don’t have to do it alone! In this episode, the new BOAW Moms operations manager, Erin Mashaw, shares her journey in ministry and her passion for equipping parents to lead their children in faith. She opens up about her own experiences as a pastor’s kid, her years in church ministry, and the resources she’s excited to create to support moms. Tune in for encouragement that you absolutely can disciple your kids with confidence! Episode Recap: 1:10 - Erin is going to be a breakout session speaker at the Soar Conference 4:05 - True discipleship happens at home 5:25 - Moms are the faith catalyst in American homes right now 7:20 - During difficult times, we experience the deepest intimacy with God 8:48 - How do we trust God in the waiting and the what ifs? 10:40 - What can moms expect from you in your breakout session? 11:30 - Sign up for the Soar Conference! 12:15 - Fill your mind with truth through Scripture, worship, etc. Scripture for Reflection: Isaiah 41:10 (NIV) – “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” Questions for Discussion: Do you feel like the primary catalyst for your family’s faith journey? If so, do you resent your husband? Are you content in that role? How do you typically respond to uncertainty or fear in parenting? What helps you refocus on God’s truth? Erin talked about using worship music, scripture, and even meditation apps to combat anxiety—what are some ways you can incorporate these practices into your daily routine? What’s one step you can take this week to invite your spouse or children into a deeper faith walk alongside you? Resources: Snag your ticket for the Soar Conference: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/soar-2025 Barna study on the influence of moms in Christian homes: https://www.barna.com/research/moms-christians-households/…

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454: Raising Kind and Respectful Kids 31:08

לפני 10 weeks31:08

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Raising kind and respectful kids feels like a lofty goal some days, but it's possible! Today Karen tackles your questions about guiding kids through friendship struggles, addressing disrespectful behavior, and teaching them to stay true to their values. Whether your child struggles with peer pressure, sibling dynamics, or showing respect at home, listen in for Karen’s practical wisdom and discipline strategies to shape your child’s heart for the long haul. Episode Recap: 5:45 - The Soar Conference is a chance to pour into your home, get signed up! 9:00 - My 8 year old is picking up bad behavior from friends, how do I influence her? 11:30 - Sometimes our kids have to learn the hard way 12:15 - My daughter changes her personality depending on who she’s with- how do I handle it? 17:30 - My husband and I have different approaches to parenting disrespect, what can we do? 23:35 - My child is so stubborn! How do I motivate her? Scripture for Reflection: Ephesians 4:2 (NIV) "Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love." Questions for Discussion: Have you felt like your influence as a mom is fading as your child’s friendships become more important? How do you navigate that shift? How do you encourage your child to stay true to who they are in different social settings? How do you handle discipline in a way that connects with your child’s personality? If you and your spouse differ in your parenting approaches, how have you worked toward unity? What has helped you get on the same page? For moms of green-wired children, what strategies have worked best in motivating them without overwhelming them? Resources: Snag your ticket for the Soar Conference: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/soar-2025 Our Parenting Together curriculum is FREE in the BOAW Moms app: [ App Store ] [ Google Play ] Curious about your child’s personality “color”? Take the free quiz: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/personality-quiz…

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453: How to Parent a Sensitive Son By Encouraging His Strengths 23:18

לפני 11 weeks23:18

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Today, we’re diving into your questions about parenting kids with melancholy personalities—from helping a 5-year-old navigate self-critical thoughts to encouraging a 10-year-old who always wants to leave the party early, to figuring out how to connect with a tween who keeps butting heads with you. If you’ve ever wondered how to better understand your child’s temperament and parent with both wisdom and grace, you’re in the right place. Episode Recap: 9:15 - My son can be so negative about himself, how can I coach him? 12:10 - My melancholy child always wants to leave events early - how would you approach this? 14:45 - We have to learn not to be embarrassed our kids behavior 15:40 - How do I build a better relationship with my blue son? 17:55 - Practice encouraging your son in his strengths 19:00 - How can I figure out my child’s personality color? Scripture for Reflection: Psalm 139:14 (NIV) – “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” Questions for Discussion: How do you see your child’s temperament influencing their everyday experiences? What strengths do you notice in your child that may be hidden beneath their struggles? How can you shift your parenting approach to encourage and support, rather than correct, your child’s personality? What strategies have worked for you in connecting with a child who tends to be more withdrawn or self-critical? Are you praying for the Lord’s guidance so that you can parent your son according to his strengths? Resources: Register for the Soar Conference today: https://subsplash.com/birdsonawire-ga/lb/ev/+j2j9wpq Take the Colors Quiz for yourself or your child! https://birdsonawiremoms.com/personality-quiz Download our FREE temperaments guide: www.boaw.mom/colors Pick up the book A Grown Up’s Guide to Kids’ Wiring https://amzn.to/40QLoaO…

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452: How to Build a Stronger Bond with Your Daughter – With Sandra Stanley & Allie Cooney 38:52

לפני 12 weeks38:52

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This week on Wire Talk, we welcome Sandra Stanley and her daughter Allie Cooney, co-authors of Meet Me in the Middle, a book designed to help moms and daughters build strong, faith-filled relationships. Sandra and Allie share lessons from their own relationship, and insights from their book—covering everything from communication struggles to the challenges of raising (and being) a teen girl today. They discuss the importance of creating a safe space for daughters, avoiding the “know-it-all” trap as moms, and learning to let go of control while guiding daughters toward wisdom and faith. Episode Recap: 6:30 - Sandra Stanley & Allie Cooney join us to talk about their book, Meet Me in the Middle 13:00 - This book was written for girls in 5th through 10th grade and their moms 14:30 - Social media creates so much noise for our daughters today 17:20 - Moms and daughters are facing many of the same pressures, just at different times in our lives and at different levels of maturity. 20:02 - When our girls feel safe with us, they are more likely to share with us 22:00 - We don’t need to turn everything into a teachable moment, be interested and be humble 24:00 - It is normal for teen girls to pull away in this season 27:35 - How do we help our daughters deal with comparison? 31:10 - What we do in parenting is far more important than what we say Scripture for Reflection: Philippians 4:4-9 (NIV) "Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.” Questions for Discussion: Sandra and Allie emphasize that moms should aim to be a safe place for their daughters. What are some ways you’ve seen this play out in your own parenting? What challenges make it difficult for you to be that safe space? Allie mentioned that her mom, instead of forcing conversations, placed wise mentors in her life. Does your daughter have wise women in her world other than you that she could learn from? Have you ever found yourself turning every conversation into a teachable moment? How can you shift toward more natural, two-way conversations with your kids? What are some practical ways you model faith in your daily life, and how do you encourage your daughter to cultivate her own personal faith journey? Resources: Register for SOAR 2025 in the BOAW Moms app today [ App Store ] [ Google Play ] Pick up a copy of Meet Me in the Middle : https://amzn.to/42JaRp1…

לפני 2 years35:16

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From chaos in your newsfeed to chaos in your living room...there's plenty to be overwhelmed by in a mom's world. Today we're talking about how to have hope in the midst of a depressing season, how to stay sane despite bickering kids, how to manage the overwhelm of 3 kids under 3, and how to keep your home from falling apart on top of it all. Loads of grace and encouragement in this conversation, moms! It's a good one to share with a friend who may be feeling overwhelmed right now. Check out our whole series on Psalm 23: 359 , 360 , 361 , 362…

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