081 Controversy and Compassion: A Conversation about The Modern Man Experience with Fidel Beauhill

The Sexual Alchemy Podcast

Today’s episode is about a particular subject that I initially wanted to cover in a solo episode; but when I tried to do it on my own, I just felt too emotional and too biased towards this topic, so I decided it would be better shared in a conversation. The person who immediately came to my mind was Fidel Beauhill, The Modern Man Coach, Founder of The Modern Man Coach Academy and The Modern Man Movement. He is a life and relationship coach for men, helping them through divorce, breakups and midlife crises, and helping them step into their masculine energy in a positive way.

Fidel and I had an awesome conversation about the phenomenon of incels and why we feel we should call them in instead of calling them out. We discussed the controversy around Andrew Tate and Jordan Peterson, how to use the terms masculine and feminine in a better way, and what we can do to change the antagonistic narrative between men and women.

What We Cover:

- What the term ‘incel’ stands for and the rhetoric surrounding it

- What coaches who work with men can do to change that extreme rhetoric

- What is so controversial about Andrew Tate and Jordan Peterson

- How Fidel teaches men to step into and embody their masculinity in a positive way

- Why today’s men feel devalued, less powerful and disconnected from their masculine energy

- The taboos surrounding male sexuality

- How to be pro-masculine without being anti-feminine

- How the current culture of victim mentality affects men

- Why it’s useful to have a gender identity framework to work with and explore it

Cultivating self-awareness is the key to navigating the challenges that modern men face. Knowing who you are is a life-long journey of self-exploration and examination. To get started on this path, Fidel proposes a three-step framework - Values, Vision, Goals. When you know what’s most important to you, when you have a compelling, long-term vision of the future, then you get to decide how you’re going to get there and learn a lot about yourself along the way.

Resources:

- The Modern Man website: https://modernman.org.uk/

- The Modern Man Club Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/themodernmanclub/

- Connect with Fidel Beauhill on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/fidel-modernman-beauhill/

- Facebook https://www.facebook.com/themodernmancoach

- Instagram https://www.instagram.com/themodernmancoach/

- Twitter https://twitter.com/ModernManCoach

- Book: Fidel Beauhill - Divorce: The Modern Man's Guide: https://www.amazon.co.uk/DIVORCE-Modern-Guide-Fidel-Beauhill/dp/1527276236/

- Book: Rebeca Lowrie: The Sexual Alchemy Journal for Men: 6 Weeks to Discovering and Embracing Your Full Sexual Self: https://www.amazon.com/Sexual-Alchemy-Journal-Men-Discovering/dp/B09NJHN24M/

- Check out my FREE Training, Reclaiming Your Intuitive, Confident, and Sensual Self https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-training

- The Sexual Alchemy Journal for Men: The Sexual Alchemy Journal for Men: 6 Weeks to Discovering and Embracing Your Full Sexual Self https://www.sexualalchemy.com/shop/p/sexualalchemyjournalformen

- The Sexual Mastery Activation Cards for Men https://www.sexualalchemy.com/shop

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- Free resources: https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-resources/

- My book "101 Meditations for Life, Business and Bedroom Success" https://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Life-Business-Bedroom-Success/dp/0993207626/

- My website https://www.sexualalchemy.com/

- Find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/s_xualalchemy/

- Find me on Twitter https://twitter.com/rebeccalowrie/

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