296: What does it actually mean to step into your power? (ft. Jason Lange)

Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

As a woman, I sometimes feel like saying to all the Nice Guys out there: We need you!

We need you on the court, in the game, on the field of Life. We need you not just as romantic partners (though we do desperately want you there), but as fathers, as colleagues, as teammates.

And we need you to be in your power. We need you to be able to speak up for yourself, to tell use the truth (even if it's uncomfortable), to come towards us sexually, to set healthy boundaries. We need your full self.

If you identify as a Nice Guy, it's likely that you're working on stepping into your power. And we want to support you in that. Here, we don't just talk about what it means to step into your power, but share success stories of men we've worked with who've gone from feeling disempowered/unable to take up space ... to asserting themselves in healthy and deeply satisfying ways.

Memorable quotes from this episode:

• "When I’ve been out of my power, it’s when I’ve lost connection to myself."
• "It was easier to just let her control everything, and not assert much agency, let alone power. This worked for a while, but eventually blew up in my face."
• "I’m happy to interrupt people now (in a way I did not used to)."
• "I often used to fall into others people’s desires or wants."
• "In relationship it’s, 'Here’s my truth, what’s your truth, and then how can we empower each other?'"
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Other episodes related to this one:

• Episode 239: Realized I’m a "Nice Guy." Now what do I do about it?
• Episode 6: From "Nice Guy" to Confident With Women & Married to a Goddess