E. 3 - Self Care - Part 2: How does mental load factor into our need for self care?
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Hello So Deep Peeps!
And welcome to Part 2 of SELF CARE. In this episode, we go one layer deeper and begin to explore the reason behind our need for self care.
Some deep things we cover:
- Why do we need self care to begin with? Phyllis and Julie unpack the concepts of “mental load” and “invisible labor”.
- Why do we so often choose efficiency over community?
- When we make our work look effortless, it erases our labor: How can we make the invisible labor visible to our partners and our family in a constructive way?
- Do the same dynamics pop up in a same sex marriage? Julie shares her experience with her partner Amy.
- Is it meal planning or is it nutritional management? Phyllis takes a deep dive into her children’s preferences for how they like their broccoli prepared.
- Self Care and Privilege: Is self care only afforded to those who can afford it?
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Phyllis and Julie
Things we referenced in the episode:
- Octonauts - The Midnight Zone | Full Episodes | Cartoons for Kids: My kids love this show and this particular episode references the midnight zone.
- You should've asked by Emma is an excellent comic that helps explain the “mental load.”
- What Is The Mental Load? Women's Invisible Labor
- Stop Calling Women Nags — How Emotional Labor is Dragging Down Gender Equality
- The term “emotional labor” was first coined by sociologist Arlie Russell Hochschild in her book The Managed Heart by Arlie Russell Hochschild - Paperback
- The Tyranny and Misogyny of Meal Planning - by Virginia Sole-Smith - Burnt Toast by Virginia Sole-Smith
- Dude Perfect: My kids love this show with these 5 fun-loving friends who do trick shots and engage in all sorts of silliness.
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