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179. The Messy Middle: How to Not Quit When Things Get Hard and Uncomfortable (when you are creating a new habit or self-improvement)
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In today’s episode, I dive into what I call the "messy middle"—that challenging, often uncomfortable phase of growth and transformation. Whether it's setting boundaries or rewiring our thoughts, the messy middle is an unavoidable, sometimes frustrating stage. We talk through the steps to recognize and navigate this space without quitting, even when discomfort and self-judgment arise.
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Manage episode 448381768 series 2895320
In today’s episode, I dive into what I call the "messy middle"—that challenging, often uncomfortable phase of growth and transformation. Whether it's setting boundaries or rewiring our thoughts, the messy middle is an unavoidable, sometimes frustrating stage. We talk through the steps to recognize and navigate this space without quitting, even when discomfort and self-judgment arise.
Mentioned in this Episode:
Take my free Training: How to be more effective without burning out
You'll learn the exact 4 steps you need to take to be more effective and productive, happier and fulfilled, so that you get more done in less time, without stress and burnout, and have the freedom to do what you love.
The Journey
www.vanessacalderonmd.com/thejourney
Learn more and join my all inclusive coaching program, The Journey, where we take everything you've been learning and apply it to your life, so you start getting sustained results in your career, business and your life. The Journey is the only comprehensive coaching program for smart women that teaches you - in just 12 weeks - how to get more done, feel better, and live a life aligned with your purpose.
Podcast Study Guide
Get your free copy of the podcast study guide
Let's connect:
FB: @vcalderonmd
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1 185. Creating your Identity on Purpose 29:47

1 184. The Joy Deficit: Why You Don't Make Time for Joy and How to Get it Back 24:34

1 183. Understanding and Rewiring Negative Thought Patterns so you can Break Free from Guilt, Imposter Syndrome and Insecurity 32:19

1 182. How to Prepare for Holiday Stress: Managing Difficult People, Triggering Conversations, and Avoiding Re-traumatization 43:09

1 181. Lessons to Improve Emotional Resilience, Inner Peace, and Success 23:42

1 180. The Gifts of Self-Compassion 32:06

1 179. The Messy Middle: How to Not Quit When Things Get Hard and Uncomfortable (when you are creating a new habit or self-improvement) 18:17

1 178. How to Get Your Time Back for YOU! 22:17

1 177. You matter too: Servant Leadership vs Martyrdom, What Are You Practicing? 34:46

1 176. Redefining Your Relationship With Weakness 20:00

1 175. The Power of Ritual and how to incorporate them into your daily life 28:10

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1 173. Invalidating Your Emotions: Why you do it, how it's effecting you and how to stop 28:35

1 172. Reconnecting To Your Intuition: A Guide to Your Inner-Knowing 42:17

1 171. What are you choosing to believe and why? 22:25

1 170. The Powerful Practice of Surrender 27:04

1 169. How to React to Your Negative Thoughts: Liberate Yourself From Negative Thoughts and Elevate your Consciousness 25:38

1 168. Why Verbalizing Your Goals Matters: How to Prime Your Brain for Success 18:41

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1 166. Simple Practices for Happiness and Inner Peace 36:07

1 165. Overwhelm: Why You Feel It and How to Not Let it Get in Your Way 17:01

1 164. Competition, Jealousy, Envy: Why you do it and How to stop 27:32

1 163. The Selfishness Lie: How to stop believing it and start choosing you 26:44

1 162. Allowing the Magic: Intersection between Spirituality and Science with Dr. Rashmi Schramm 44:57

1 161. Ancestral and Generation Trauma: How to know if you have it and How to Heal 31:15

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1 158. Permission To feel Sad: Why You Avoid Feeling Sad, and What to Do Instead 25:19

1 157. Self Compassion and it's Link to Productivity, Achievement, and Business Success 27:27

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1 155. You're not lazy, but here's who benefits when you think you are (and what to do about it) 32:40

1 154. How to Separate Your Core Self from Your Thinking Brain 13:07

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1 152. How to Practice Mind Yoga for a More Determined and Resilient Mind 22:53

1 151. How to Cultivate the Relationship With the Person You Spend the Most Amount of Time With 18:11

1 150. Navigating Grief and Loss in the midst of personal and professional responsibilities 34:13

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1 148. Why You Quit on Your Goals, and How to Recommit (so that you achieve your goals and your truest desires) 28:19

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1 146. How to take a Loss in Business and in Life 14:38

1 145. The courage to have difficult conversations 10:05


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1 140. Mastering Self-Discipline Part 3: The Science of Self-Discipline and how to use it to get more done 28:13

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1 131. Cultivating compassion towards your ego to get more in life 22:21

1 130. The not enough syndrome: how to break free and achieve more 24:59

1 129. Maslow Unlocked: Achieving Self-Actualization in the Modern World 28:25

1 128. Impermanence and the Art of Letting Go: Navigating Life's Transitions Mindfully 19:57

1 127. Turning Workplace Challenges into Opportunities: Strategies for Managing Difficult Employees who you can't fire (including former bosses) 32:41

1 126. Unlocking Self-Validation: Breaking Free from Invalidation Patterns 28:14

1 125. What's Possible: Overcoming Procrastination with Self-Compassion 42:41

1 124. What's Possible: Breaking Free from People-Pleasing and Showing up with Confident Authenticity with Sneha 58:53

1 123. What's Possible: Overcoming Imposter Syndrome, Getting Promoted at Work, and Improving my Marriage (while raising 3 young kids) with Dr. Angie 51:44

1 122. Sustaining a Conference High: Keeping the spark alive with strategies for long-term motivation 22:05

1 121. Decision Making: The Power of Balancing Emotion and Logic 27:45

1 120. Breaking Through Imposter Syndrome: Empowering Your Success 37:20

1 119. PART3: Unraveling the Patriarchy: Past, Present, and Persistence 40:13

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1 116. Befriending your mind: A Powerful journaling practice to shift away from negative self-talk 15:25

1 115. How to separate your core self from your negative thoughts 19:28

1 114. Apathy: Why you feel "Blah" and another way fear shows up 12:11

1 113. Why you're afraid to take action 25:31

1 112. The Stress-Trauma Continuum 28:37

1 111. How to change any area of your life you're not happy with 22:16

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1 109. Self-Forgiveness Part 1: A Step-by-step process to forgive and stop shaming yourself 25:58

1 108. 3 Tools to Stop Procrastinating 16:12

1 107: How to Turn off Your Work Brain and Stop Thinking About Work at Home 22:49

1 105. Radical Acceptance and how to get more done without the stress 11:11

1 104. One Simple Question to Shift from Stress and Burnout to Equanimity 10:17

1 102. Boundaries: How to Make Setting them Less Hard 14:44

1 101. How to Lean Into Your Intuition 16:11

1 100. How to Access Your Limitless Potential 26:21

1 99. How to use Mindful Listening to improve your relationships 23:21

1 98. Shame, guilt and self-compassion when it comes to past mistakes (including divorce) 53:48

1 97. How to change any thought and start thinking on purpose 24:25

1 96. How to stop feeling guilty when your body need to rest 14:14

1 95. How to have enough time for everything you value (and stop saying \"i don't have time for that\") 14:09

1 94. Simple and highly effective tools to manage stress and create emotional self-regulation 22:07

1 93. How to create authentic self-confidence and move away from feeling like you're not enough 18:04

1 92. Achieve Every Goal You Set Part 3: How to stop procrastinating and start taking action 15:22

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1 90. Achieve Every Goal You Set: Part 1 - Choosing the right goal for you 25:28

1 89. Self-expression and living a more fulfilled life 24:27

1 88. Perfectionism: Why you have it and how to move past it 31:15

1 87. Celebrations: How and Why to celebrate your daily wins 14:29

1 86. Belonging: Why it Matters and How to Cultivate it 31:01

1 85. Stop "SHOULDING" all over yourself 20:37

1 84. How to be Effective at Work When the Job is Imperfect (i.e. frustrating colleagues or circumstances) 19:27

1 83. Having the Audacity to Believe in Yourself 17:00

1 82. How to distance yourself from negative thoughts 12:00


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1 74. Decolonize Your Brain: Part 1 Colonization and the Colonizer Mentality 23:45

1 72. Your Brain's Golden Hour of Efficiency 10:38

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