42. How Do We Know If We're Loveable?

Shit We Don't Tell Mom

Are we loveable? Insecurities can stem from so many different sources but how do we manage them and prevent them from ruining our current and future relationships? We dive into our experiences with our past and figure out how to notice our triggers and re-work our thinking so we can have healthier relationships.

**Content Warning: Death, Depression, Suicide**

Takeaways:

• Don’t give up after the first time you seek professional help because it’s about the right fit and right timing
• We inherit unhealthy emotional attachments from our families but we can unlearn them
• No one is responsible for our emotional labour but ourselves
• Your partner has the right and is responsible for choosing you

Resources:

• How to Overcome a Fear of Rejection
• Communicating Your Needs Isn't Selfish, It's Selfless
• Four Ways to Stop Feeling Insecure in Your Relationships

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