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You Can Handle Anything!

Shira Gura, Emotional Well-Being Coach and Author

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Welcome to You Can Handle Anything, where you'll discover the strength and resilience you already have within you. I'm your host, Shira Gura, and as someone who knows exactly what it's like to get caught in overwhelming thoughts and emotions, I'm here to tell you—you're not alone. Here's what I know for sure: even when it feels like there's no way forward, there's always a path—and I'm here to help you find it. Each week, we explore real moments that challenge us, transform us, and ultimatel ...
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I wanted to share something unexpected that happened just a few hours ago while recording this week's episode of the "You Can Handle Anything" podcast. The theme of today's episode was drama, and life certainly delivered. As I was recording, Iran began launching ballistic missiles at Israel, triggering sirens that sent us rushing to our safe rooms.…
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Ever wished you could hit a "reset" button on a conversation gone wrong? 🔄 I sure have! This week on the "You Can Handle Anything" podcast, I'm diving into the concept of a "do over" and sharing a personal story that might just change the way you approach misunderstandings. A couple of weeks ago, a simple misunderstanding about a dentist appointmen…
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This week on the "You Can Handle Anything" podcast, we're exploring the transformative power of self-reflection. I've been emphasizing how taking a moment to pause and consider our actions and thoughts can significantly impact our personal growth and awareness. 🤔 In line with this theme, I'm excited to share a special episode featuring Jamie, a val…
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This week's episode of the "You Can Handle Anything" podcast will be different. After the heart-wrenching news of the execution of six hostages in Israel, including Hersh Goldberg-Polin, a friend of friends, I found myself deeply affected. In light of this, I invite you to join me in taking a moment to pause—a stop that feels necessary right now, n…
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In this podcast episode, I explore the common yet often unspoken issue of shame that many people feel when confronting negative emotions, getting emotionally stuck, or facing relationship problems. It's incredibly normal to feel embarrassed about needing tools to manage one's emotional health, but this shame is truly unnecessary. Once individuals j…
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In this podcast episode, I discuss the significant role of language in managing emotions and enhancing well-being. The term "stuck" is pivotal in my approach; recognizing when you're "stuck" on an emotion is crucial because it signals that there's a method to help you move forward. I encourage rephrasing emotional states, such as changing "I'm angr…
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This podcast focuses on the importance of taking personal responsibility, especially when feeling emotionally stuck. Often, the instinct is to blame others for our feelings, but this approach means we're not fully owning our part. Taking personal responsibility involves acknowledging, owning, and processing our own thoughts and emotions. By doing s…
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Have you ever felt incredibly strongly about something, only to find yourself talking to someone who sees things the exact opposite way? Or maybe they just can’t see your side at all? It’s beyond frustrating. You might argue back and forth, but no matter what you say, they don’t budge. It feels like you’re the only one suffering, but it’s likely to…
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Ever felt stuck on how to respond when someone close does something you disagree with? Reacting impulsively can damage relationships and make you regret your actions, while staying silent might leave you feeling like a doormat. Here's a tip: try asking for permission to share your feelings. It’s a respectful way to communicate without overstepping,…
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Ever wake up feeling weighed down by regret over something you did yesterday? 😞 It's a heavy feeling, and it can linger all day—or even longer. This hit me hard after a recent Father's Day celebration. We planned to spend the day with extended family, about 3 hours from my parents' house. I decided to go, even though it meant rescheduling a regular…
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In this episode, I discuss the importance of morning routines and how they transform my day. I share how my morning starts with peace and quiet, using practices like breathwork, yoga, and my essential "Getting Unstuck" worksheet. This routine isn't just about starting the day; it's about clearing out leftover emotions and setting a positive tone. L…
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Big news—I’m about to hop on a jet plane and head to the United States for the summer! ✈️ Every year, I cherish this chance to reconnect with family and friends, but this summer, I’m hoping to do something special: an "Unstuck Summer." From my base in New Jersey to as far as California (or even Canada!), I’m looking to bring the power of The unSTUC…
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In this episode of "You Can Handle Anything," I delve into one of the most common but overlooked issues in relationships: the "rulebooks" we create for others. These are the expectations we set about how people should act, speak, and behave—like putting away shoes or doing dishes. Often, the other person is unaware of these rules, leading to frustr…
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Ever catch yourself thinking, "I wish I could..." or "I wish I had..."? 🤔 Those aren't just daydreams; they're powerful desires pointing you toward your destiny. Most of us try to chase these dreams by setting goals. But here's the tough truth: most people don't achieve them. Why? Well, I want to share two big reasons: They get hyper-focused on the…
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Ever felt totally swamped by all the work on your plate, whether it's a project, daily chores, or even just tidying up the house? 🤯 It's tempting to blame the chaos around you for that sense of overwhelm, but what if the real cause is something else entirely? Tune in to discover the root of your overwhelm and learn practical tips to conquer it for …
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Ever been called a terrible parent by your own child? Yup, that's exactly what happened to me recently. 😢 And trust me, it wasn't fun. But here's the good news: Instead of getting defensive, the new Shira handled it differently. 🌟 I stayed calm, kept control, and responded in a way that made me proud. It's not that I'm special. I just had The unSTU…
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